my husband and i sometimes argue over real stupid things. he seems to always be frustrated and gets mad over anything....and that makes me upset. once we got to the point were i hit him in the nose and he was bleeding and he slaped me back....what i hate the most is that minutes later he acts like nothin happened and just wants to jump into bed.... i know he loves me and i love him to but im getting tired of his attitute and i just keep getting bit**ier a meaner with him. i need some advice
2007-03-28 14:38:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like a home version of WWF here. You two need some professional help here before something real ugly happens and it wont be pretty. True, some couples actually thrive on fighting but its not normal. Seek some help
2007-03-28 14:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he work out? What starts the fights most of the time?
As far as him hitting you he shouldnt of done that. even if a woman hits him he should be man enough to not hit you back. A man can really hurt you if he hits you in the right spot. But on the other hand you shouldnt of hit him either.
What i am getting at if he is working out alot he might be taken roids. Or taking some kind of drug. ANy relationship when it comes down to the hitting part its time to leave, because somone is going to get hurt or worse.
2007-03-28 14:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by danielp1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you and your husband deal with issues before you got married? Behavior like this is unacceptable in any relationship and if you can't keep your hands to yourself like a little kid you guys should be seperated or get counseling. You both need to sit down and talk about the right way to deal with issues big and small. If you guys can't find a way, seperate no use in staying so close to danger. Would you stand next to a bomb because you "loved it"?
2007-03-28 15:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by sesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you need a marriage counsellor.
You are having communication problems and not sorting out issues to each other's satisfaction. He wants to sweep things under the carpet and is mad cos you keep holding on to your anger. You want to talk things out and sort things out and are mad that he just wants to pretend like it never happened.
You both need to get onto the same page and pull together - or the marriage will tear itself apart.
2007-03-28 14:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 19:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by picone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really give u a answer but i can relate to you and i know ifeel about my relationship, all i can say is make sure your happy and try counseling because love hurts sometimes but not all the time. oh and try space maybe u guys are under each other 2much.
2007-03-28 14:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by shaniquwa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need counceling and fast. there is problems that you two are not talking out and appearently you cannot work them out between the 2 of you so get a councelor go 2gether n seperate so that you can work out ur issues.
2007-03-28 14:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you need a marriage counsellor
2007-03-28 14:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him and letting him know how you feel. If that don't work u might need to find a new man.
2007-03-28 14:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋