2007-03-28 14:37:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's a total package. If there are things in the relationship which are not working, it can affect every aspect of that union and could end up being significant enough that it ruins everything. That isn't to say that people can't learn, but then that depends on how long you want to play teacher. Good luck!
2007-03-28 14:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO,your dick cant think and you should not be thinking of marriage, at least not with the small one. Answers these questions :
1. Why are you wanting to get married ?
2. Why this girl ?
3. Why have sex when its no good ?
4. Why cant you walk out of it ?
5. What is Marriage ?
6. What is family ?
7. What is it when someoine calls you daddy ?
8. What is love ?
* Marriage is the union of 2 lovely souls in body mind and soul. Sex is just the physical expression of the inward spiritual union of 2 soul mates. Out of that love union comes forth a family.
2007-03-28 14:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling that the sex is probably good in your partner's mind, otherwise they really wouldn't want to marry. Marriage is forever. It is an honest, deeply rewarding relationship with someone who completes you to the point that no other one person could ever be that intimately close to you. Your spouse should be the person you live to share your life with, that you long to make love to because they know how to turn you on by giving you a certain look from across a crowded room!~ This is just one married woman's opinion. You wouldn't be honest with the other person if you married them under these circumstances. Sorry to go on so long, I really only intended to say,"NO!" Good luck.
2007-03-28 15:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by momfirst101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If you have bad sex it will eventually ruin the relationship unless neither of you care about sex. I have never heard a happily married couple say 'We are so in love and happy but have bad sex' Maybe you could go to sex therepy or something but I would hold off on getting married.
2007-03-28 14:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lori O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd generally think no.
You'd only get resentful and wind up cheating. It's a recipe for heartbreak.
On the other hand, girls are different and can seem to go without sex for a long time if needed. *boggles*
I suppose there is the thought that if you work on it, then it could improve. Is he likely to want to work on it?
2007-03-28 14:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that sex is important in a relashionship....#1 because you connect with the other person and #2 because you relieve stress.......I am in an situation.......but I love this man and leaving him just because of lack of sex isn't worth it......although i would prefer it all the time as apposed to hardly at all....good luck
2007-03-28 15:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because if its not good now it will come to a stop soon.dont settle for half a marriage sex is important but in the begining it should be great! it is natural for things to cool down in time but if its not good from the begining maybe your partner isnt really into you.good luck and if you are not sure what to do dont do anything think it through you will figure out what is right for you.
2007-03-28 14:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should you get married if the sex is not good? when the best part of a relationship is to satisfy your partner.
2007-03-28 14:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by kATT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a sexless marriage, with a whole lot of love and respect, can still be wonderful. But to have a sex driven marriage, with no love. What's the point?
2007-03-28 14:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How important is sex to you? Be 100% honest in answering that question or life is going to get miserable.
2007-03-28 14:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋