they have been married for 7 yrs and at the beginning of their marriage was good like all of them are and then the fights came and then they became physical, he would hit her. then he ended up cheating on her. and between all of this his brother came to live with them and she ended up sleeping with him. Now they are in love and all three are living in the same house. sometimes she will critisize other people for sleepin around and I want to say something like " look who talking" but I don't.... so should I? I mean I'm not gonna rat her out to anyone but, she sounds like a hipocrit and I want her to know thats how I think, so should I say something to her???
2007-03-28 14:13:48 · 17 answers · asked by Marianita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even though she's u're best friend u shouldn't say anything to her because she's a grown women and she knows what's she's doing. my bestfriend i cheating on her husband of 4 years and she says she can because he has cheated on her 3 times already i don't think 2 wrong make a right but i can't tell her anything i'm not her mother.
2007-03-28 14:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by ynra BTB 4-18-09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what for ? Tell you what i would do .Get a new best friend . There's an old saying "Birds of a feather flock together" People are going to think the same about you and your going to end up like them being your all hanging around and getting the same ideas
2007-03-28 14:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an awful situation. If she is your best friend you have to tell her about how you feel. If your freindship can't handle that then you need new friends. Now if she is afraid of her husband you do not want to get in the middle of that mess, however she needs to get out.
Otherwise whole situation is just weird
2007-03-28 14:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by freshex2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask yourself ..how badly is not saying nothing effecting you ? And how much her friendship means to you ? . I don't think anyone should hold there tounge for any reason..but before you go all off about it and feelings get hurt then you might lose a friend. Before you speak..think about what you're going say.
2007-03-28 14:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wrong for sleeping around! She may feel like she is paying him back for all that he has done to her.However, that does not justify her actions. She should just leave her husband. He sounds like a Jerk.The only thing you should say to her, is that she needs to get a divorce.
2007-03-28 15:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by lslbyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a sin and comparison is much worst than that.No advice can be taken into consideration.They have to get hit the hard way.
2007-03-28 14:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, is the toddler nonetheless little? issues would exchange because it grows... additionally, no. that's their existence, courting, family contributors. there could be some weird and wonderful reason that the toddler isn't blonde/blue. i would not intervene. in simple terms enable them to artwork it out, if something desires to be labored out! and enjoy your niece/nephew!
2016-10-01 21:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just tell her that you think its being a hipocrite or whatever, but its not going to change anything, and she is entitled to her opinion, even though the shoe fits, i just don't think it should let you bother you, its her life, her business, her problems...
2007-03-28 14:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should leave her husband cause she don't love him and really she probably don't love his brother either, it was probably just an easy out.
2007-03-28 14:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by queenb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she deserves to be told alot more than that. thats the worst type of cheater. and birds of a feather flock together so what r u looking like nowadays. bird
2007-03-28 14:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by bobo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋