i'M So Nervous && i Don't Even Kno How To Tell Her Because I Know She Will Be Dissapointed.
2007-03-28 14:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by me. 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just simply tell her this "Mom I love you and I have something to tell you. I love you mom, and I need your love, support, and help now more than I will ever need it. I have never ment to hurt you or dissapoint you, but I am pregnant" If you feel you can't tell her, then write it in a letter, tell her not to say anything until she has finished reading it, and sit down with her while she reads it. She will be mad, sad, and dissapointed, but she'll get passed that. Before you know it, she'll take ya out for babyclothes shopping and arranging a baby shower for you! Goodluck and remember she loves you no matter what and will be there for you through thick and thin.
2007-03-28 14:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you are young and unmarried or you would not be so nervous. My advice would be to just sit her down and tell her. Mother's can be very understanding and supportive if you give them a chance. I agree she will be disappointed, but she needs to know for the benefit of all. She needs to be able to help you make a good decision on the future of the baby, you need to get prenatal care, and that baby needs love and assurance that he/she will have a good place in this world.
2007-03-28 14:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by jeepy1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you gotta tell her sumtym becuz the longer you wait then the harder it will get. so you just got 2 sit down and talk to her and tell her that you wud want her to stand by you and stuff lyk at. depending on how young u are and if you have a job and you can support you and the baby. but if you are a teen you cud just try your best and work summit out. mums are bound to be dissapointed but they just worry. good luck!!x
2007-03-29 09:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Gehmz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her disappointment will be temporary. Just prepare yourself for the worst and for her to be disappointment and voice her opinion and possibly even get mad and upset.
Just keep your mouth shut and let her say what she needs to and keep in mind that her feelings on the matter are temporary.
She will then become focused on you and your well being. She will make sure u r taking care of yourself.
Her disappointment will be replaced with acceptance in a month or so, and she will come around.
Then, once she sees her grandbaby, all will be just fine.
Good luck to u.
2007-03-28 14:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I don't think I could say the words to her so I would write I'm Pregnant on a piece of paper and hold it up for her to read and then just sit their in silence while she blows up. Answer her when she asks you something but other than that just let her blow up until she finishes!
2007-03-28 14:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by missC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight out.. she might get mad at first but she'll be able to accept it soon enough and would end up loving the idea of being a grandmother. assure her that you will take responsibility for kid.. do ask her for pointers cz she knows better about motherhood and all that.. good luck.
2007-03-28 14:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by streetwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom flipped and taboot we were in the doctors office when she found out. so its not good to wait u needa tell her soon! better now then later. just sit her down make sure shes in a good mood!
2007-03-28 14:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by rideemcowboyyehaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom, guess what I got something to tell you I am pregnant.:)
2007-03-28 14:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just don't tell her, have one of your friends or even your boyfriend tell her.
2007-03-28 14:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by msknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u must not tell her, u have to get an obortion emedietly b4 its to late,
2007-03-28 14:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋