see i have afriend and she is very nice but then when she met this friendl she started to be mean and that girl became mean to me. i miss my friend and i like to become friends again. what should i do?
2007-03-28 14:05:45 · 10 answers · asked by i luv peace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go talk to her and let her know how you feel. If you are trying to make up with her, then do NOT waste all your time trying to get her to see how wrong she was.
Just talk to her, tell her you miss her and you would like to be her friend again.
All the best!!
2007-03-28 14:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say nothing. I know you want to be friends but do you want to be friends with someone that is mean to you? Friendships grow and change over time. Things happen in our lives and friendships break up as new ones are formed. I would have to say that there is nothing that I would do. You cant apologize because you didn't do anything. You can tell your friend how you feel and that you want her to be your friend again but if she fails to respond to this or is mean than I would just end the friendship there. Personally I would wait for her to come back to you. I wouldnt go out of my way to talk to her. If she misses you she will come back.
2007-03-28 21:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to think about what kind of friend she was to begin with. Seems to me that a true friend wouldn't turn on you. So, I question whether she was a "true" friend of yours from the start. If she was what happened to make her turn on you?
I know that friendship is really important and the most important aspect of friendship is trust. You could try to get together, just the two of you, and talk about what happened and how it's making you feel. If she still cares about you, forgiveness can take place, and together you can move on in your friendship. It sounds like you are the one who will have to start this conversation. If she chooses to reject you, she was never truly your friend anyway. Good Luck!!
2007-03-28 21:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by William 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats ezacly what happened to me well i had this friend who me and her were bestfriends and i think she was the bestfriend i ever had and well we started to be friends in the 3 grade and then in the middle of 43 grade a new girl came to my class and me and her became friends with the new girl and then before when we were talking she stared making me be mean to my best friend because the newgirl told lies and now we arent friends but now you should do what i want to do go up to her and say " Look I know were not friends anymore but i really miss you and I want to be friends with you so can we be friends?" and if she really liked you as a friend she will say YES! do it tomorrow no matter what your other friends say just do it the next time you see her
2007-03-28 21:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♦♪♫ஐ♥♥ஐ♫♪♦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sound like the kind of friend I would want. If she's mean to you after hanging with another mean girl, then I'd say she has a serious character flaw and you should thank God that she's not your friend anymore! There are lots of friends you could have don't don't act like jerks!!!
2007-03-28 21:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the same thing is happing 2 me right now so just be nice and act like u dont care. it worked 4 me so it might work 4 you
2007-03-28 21:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Asya♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem when i was younger the best thing to do is try to talk to ur friend n explain how u feel...n later ur friend will come back to u
2007-03-28 21:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by sailormoonmei 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just walk up 2 her and state your true feelings
2007-03-28 21:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by gemini_soccer_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one!Go to clubs and you'll find people taht like what you like.
2007-03-28 21:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how u feel
2007-03-28 21:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋