People calling me crule names and I would like help with it please?

Question

There is a ton of people that make fun of me... They call me gay and all that stuff. How can I get them to stop and stuff...Its really hurting my Ego and I have had thoughts od suiside...HELP PLEASE!!!

Answer 1

First of all honestly, you are worth every penny that the entire world has spent in your life time. Dont beat yourself up cos of some freaks that judge you. Who knows, their families may not be stable so they judge others like their parents judge them. I wonder: Why are we made? and Why do we have personalities that clash with others? The answer is to find our own purpose in life and let no one judge us. Let them f***kers say what they want deep down inside you know the truth and live your life for the sake of being alive.
The next time they say anything imagine them naked and they will wonder why you feel so sick at the sight of them. ha ha

Answer 2

I know it can hurt, but like someone else said, it is only your opinion of yourself that counts.
I think the reason that people pick on you is because they see if hurts you. Don't react to it, don't let them see that it is hurting you. Just smile and say "really?".
If you quit reacting, it won't be fun for them anymore and they will quit. Well, most of them will anyway. There is always one big dunderhead that just can't seem to get it.
I don't know how old you are, but this won't last forever, I promise. Just remember, THEY are the ones with the problem. They are the ones who are acting stupid. They may even think they are funny.
You may want to tell your parents what is going on, or if you have an older brother or sister, tell them. Don't keep it all to yourself. Talk about it and maybe there is something they can do or help give you advise.
But don't even think about killing yourself. This is only a temporary problem that will go away. Killing yourself is permanent, and that won't ever go away.

Answer 3

That sounds familiar. When I was younger, I was called all kinds of names.

Have you talked this over with your parents? If you haven't, you should talk to them RIGHT AWAY. Depending on your age and who's making fun of you, there are several things that can be done.

By the way, your problem will stop once your "friends" get old enough. Unfortunately, when kids are younger, they have very low self-esteem. Them making fun of you is a reflection of THEIR low self-esteem, not yours. You see, if they can call you names and make you sad, it means they won and they are better than you....

Another thing is, how are you reacting to all these name calling? Are you fighting with them or giving them some kind of reaction that they enjoy? I bet you are. Just say "whatever..." or something and walk away. Don't give them the pleasure of your reaction.

Answer 4

We cannot force people to stop saying cruel things to us, but we can stop feeling bad by remembering we are not the cruel names people call us.

Sometimes, people call others gay when there is absolute no truth to such name calling. It is a natural feeling to be concerned about whether or not others will believe such a lie.

We cannot control what others believe because sometimes people will believe a lie before they will believe the truth. Talk to someone you really trust about what you are going through.

Answer 5

I wish I knew how old you are. I want you to pick a couple of people-who you trust- and tell them-everything- this will hopefully give you the beginning of a solid support team. Verbal abuse is so cruel..harassment is a crime,depending on what is said...do they threaten to hurt you-if they do-call 911. Please remember that if you end your life...others will go without the loving advice you can now give them( you know how it feels-you can help others!)Not to mention the world will go without a very important part(your destiny) Please let the people you pick to trust know that you feel this way (suicidal). Stay STRONG (inside-an-out) BE as POSITIVE as YOU CAN!!! I wish you love and joy in all you do! Good Luck!

Answer 6

Why would someone call you gay? Tell them to grow up! That's just so yesterday! I think they're very childish! Some people are just mean to be mean! Ignore them, and go hang with your friends. Chances are more people than you, think that those people, who call you names, are idiots!

Answer 7

Are you a student? If so, confide in your parents and speak with your school counselor so that they can properly advise you. In the meantime, don't let those people "get you down". Hold your head high and believe in yourself. Know your heart and know God. They're the ones with the problem (it's called hate), not you. Please take my advice and God bless you.
Sincerely,
Journey

Answer 8

Remember that they are nothing but *******. Look I went through an experience similiar to yours and it did hurt my ego inside but I must have a high resistance factor because I looked at it this ways Im not going to be seeings these SOBS next year so I have to deal with them only for this grade then Im free. I told the teacher but she really was and Im sorry if Im rude saying this to her now a pathetic lazy teacher that needs to shape up. She didnt do me much help at all so i did feel hurt inside but after the experience I can tell you I became a stronger person on the inside.

Honestly I have no idea what some god damn sob would try to annoy someone who is keeping to themself like I was but they did annoy the hell out of me all freakin year long a I still remember there names I pity them to be honest. If there that cruel now in school I can only imagine them being failures when they grow up. I never had thoughts of suicide but I had a deep passion for hating them.

In the end Im actually not that angry at them They made me better to accept critisism and I now have a good idea that there are plenty of people out there that can be described as nothing more then cruel. I a stronger person today then what I was then.. I didnt concern myself with them You think some ******* are gonna stop me from achieving my dreams if anything they motivated me more to achieve even higher goals. Im a laidback silent person and for them to annoy the hell out of me shows me that I feel sorry for them because they have a metal disorder or something or maybe there messed up in the head because there is no reason for one to show hate towards someone for no reason I pity them to be honest there nothing but low-lifes who obviously have nothing better to do.

You can critize them back but dont bother it will only motivate them even more you could tell a teacher but they still might see you outside of class. Learn that these are sadastic people who have a mental problem and that you are an individual who has a valuable life and is certainly way above there standards. I applaud you for being above them but dont fall into there trap and commit suicide. Your above that and forget them because they will not be in your life forever. Life is to precious to destroy we must live it to our fullest and we can all achieve our dreams if we are truly deticated to them through hard times and good.

Ignore them get into a hobby like Guitar and have a passion for living. Do if afterschool everynight. Or practice drawing or something...

Now I would and you should do the same Tell someone if they physically hury you. But for me Say the hell you want about me but Im above words and Ive grown from that experience. I know myself better then anyone else so therefore they have no right to judge me without fully knowing me. Amen

Goddamn are people really that stupid these days? Why critizize someone without even knowing the person.

Answer 9

Tell them they can shove it where the sun dont shine and beat them up. Gay also means happy so just tell them that yes youu are happy!

Answer 10

Just remember you teach people how to treat you - If you don't acknowledge their behavior they will get bored and leave you alone - Be proud of yourself no matter what