Even doe my baby mother says that there is nothing between us other than the kids.But i still write letters and send flowers of how sincere i want to continue to be a family.It's going to be a year April 1st since her and my daughters has been down south.I thought all was fine i work hard up here to send her money to help support with in another year i will come down and we could live out the rest of our lives together.Until i went down there for thanks giving to hear her tell me that we are not together,which broke my heart.I've been trying hard to please this woman and i have to admit that i have had some pit falls along the way.But no other woman knows me better than her.Then to make matters worse i was diagnosed with cancer
and I'm in my 3rd cycle of treatment,that's what i mean by pit falls when you think every thing is all lodie dodie moving a step forward there always something pulling me two steps back.help i need some one to talk too...
2007-03-28 14:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by take_me1st 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, let me say that I am sorry to hear that you have been diagnosed with cancer. Thankfully there are so very many treatments available these days, so hopefully everything will work out for you there.
Now, for your babies momma, sometimes no matter how hard someone wants things to work out, it just doesn't. It sounds like the two of you have been thru some really tough things, and maybe she has moved on with her life and unfortunately her life now doesn't include you, other than as the father of her children. I think you will probably always love her, if for nothing else, then for the fact that she has your babies. But that doesn't mean you wont find someone else to love and that loves you.
I think its admirable tho that you have been sending money for the support of those babies. Right now you need to concentrate on getting your health back on track so that you can be there for your children as they grow.
Best wishes to you....
2007-03-28 14:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn the old devils after you isn't he . You must be to good of a person . Ive had allot of pit falls to but not dieing from cancer.Devil wont me here to suffer i guess . My old woman ran off to but she did leave the kids there not mine but what the hell they keep me company I loved her allot to .
I wish i could say something to cheer you up but damn I'm in the same boat floating out to sea with no paddle .
You know what where bound to get our reward in heaven because the devil is working so hard to knock us down so that can only mean he wont's rid of us so he can take over that's the way i see it .
Well keep the faith i think this is just the beginning not the end.
2007-03-28 22:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how bad your condition is, but either way would u rather spend your time chasing some woman or enjoying the company of a woman that wants to be with you. lifes too short and theres too many fish in the sea.
2007-03-28 21:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by bobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh!You poor thing!Well,tell her how you feel in a letter and tell her everything.Why did she leave you?We women want to be respected as much as you men do.I can help more if I know why she left you.
2007-03-28 21:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During this point in your life I'm pretty sure you don't need someone who doesn't want you.You need support not someone who won't. Reach out to your friends and family and keep your faith strong. You will find someone who will love you, don't stress yourself about it.
2007-03-28 21:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Luv2Laugh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't make anyone want you or love you. Sorry to hear about your cancer. 3 things: God, Family and Friends. You need someone to talk to - you can hollar anytime. I wish you luck.
2007-03-28 21:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was over before she left... I Know that GOD will heal you... So no matter if you don't get back with her there will be someone else out there that would love to get to know you if you open your heart to them....and you keep your faith in the lord and if you dont have no faith please get some fast*****Good Luck In life*****
2007-03-28 21:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want some advice- u may not like the answer but if she can't appreciate u then there are plenty of women who would love to be treated like that. move on from her
2007-03-28 21:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your doctor what you are going through and they can get you into therapy, it well help. I will say a prayer for you. Good luck...
2007-03-28 21:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a therapist, they will be happy to chat with you.
2007-03-28 21:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋