ok its these girls and everyday during 3 peroid they always looking me up and down and whispering stuff about. me... also they always trying to give me advice about how i dress or how to make my hair better .sometimes it makes me mad because im nice i never talked about any of them and the worst part is we were alll friends at the beginning of the school year.. and makes me so mad.... i think their jealous but why.. i dont do anything to extra attention im just a cool person and have a alot of friends ..what should i do
2007-03-28 13:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by unique_and_Petite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These girls probably need something to talk about with each other and they're bored...so they made you their "project." Since you're easygoing, you're not threatening. They are not worried that you're going to do anything back to them. When I was in middle school, the same thing happened to me. I went to the school counselor and he told me I was being a "target."
Next time these girls give you advice, say "No thanks. My hair/style of dress is just fine." Just say it matter of factly and don't dwell near them. If they think you're scared of them, they'll just bother you more.
They could be jealous that you're a cool person so they're trying to pick out something wrong with you. Making fun of someone else is also a way for these girls to bond and find something to talk about. They're immature and don't have a life. No need to tell them that though. Just remember that you're a lot cooler than they are in the long run, but if they give you trouble, talk to a counselor or teacher and tell them you want it to stop.
I hope it works out for you :]
2007-03-28 14:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are the jealous type of girls, and you'll have them in life.
not all girls are as good as you or as pretty or anything.
just ignore them and if it gets worse tell them how you feel, nothing works better than talking it out. ask them what their problem is but don't cause any fighting.
Fighting never solves anything. but really, don't let them get to you because theres always going to be a jealous person in your life and you can't really do anything about it but try and talk about it.
2007-03-28 14:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by kourtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ONE should ever try to judge you or talk about you in front of YOU. they ARE NOT your friends and they ARE jealous or else they think you are soo much better than them that they should talk about you, so you can feel bad and change yur way of wearing yur clothes and way of acting. remember, you are you and the more they talk about you, the more they ARE the ones who will suffer later on. truly, you should just ask them why they are talking about you and everything and if they make fun of you or start acting like they didnt, thats when you tell them what you have heard from them.
2007-03-28 14:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get over their selfs. they probably want attenion from other people and to do that they have to talk about saomebody. and if you were friends at the beginning of the year they shouldn't be talking about you behinde your back
2007-03-28 14:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by ashley v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous because they aren't as great as you.... and feel they need to do something to make you feel hurt. But don't let them get you down! :]
2007-03-28 14:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by hereecomesxthesun :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident and be who you are. Ignore them and don't worry about it. Make new friends and just be unique!
2015-10-27 12:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the probably jealous if you so the best thing to do is keep you head held high and be confident
2007-03-28 14:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by babyspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they need to finish high school before they consider beauty school...
2007-03-28 14:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them...they are just instable with their life and so they make fun of you to make themselves happy so just blow it off and they will eventually stop =]]
2007-03-28 14:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by cAitLiN*miChELe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about them...they arent worth it.
2007-03-28 14:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋