Ladies what if one of your guy friends decided to test you how much care about him by saying to you , Say After School. Walking beside you then blurt out.
"hey I'm moving back to my old city, You'll probably never see me again".
--- Say you jump at him and give him a hug then he is satisfied with your response then says.. Oh I was just testing you gurl!
--- or not, then he would know that you don't care about him and say "oops you failed the test gurl! don't talk to me anymore you care about me! LOL"
2007-03-28 13:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats what I thought. probably a Bad Idea. 10 points to most thoughtfull answere given.
2007-03-28 14:01:01 · update #1
Testing people is manipulative and shows a lack of respect and an anti-social desire for control.
Playing with someone's feelings to satisfy your curiosity is creepy and wrong.
2007-03-28 13:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must really care about you if he does that he must think your that pretty for someone better in your eye's to take you away from him. He's just unsure about your relationship. This might be crazy but evaluate him for a dating and maybe if you do that he would think you care for him as he is for you. Besides testing a person isnt that bad he need to know you temptations and if he's doing that he's probaly looking for a deeper relationship, either that or he plain just dont trust cha but there's probaly love in his heart that makes him do that. LOVE MAKES YOU DO CRAZY THINGS!!!!!
2007-03-28 20:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by mark n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a test to show you care about a friend b/c a test/trick is mean spending time with someone means you like them as a friend
2007-03-28 20:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by artsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy.be a real man and just ask her if she has any feelings for him.you won't learn a single thing by beating around the bush.
2007-03-28 20:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is that insecure and immature that he feels he has to "test" me, he is not for me. I'd actually be grateful to him though for showing me that I was wasting my time with him. I don't play with people's feelings and I don't expect them to play with mine.
2007-03-28 20:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might lose me if he decides to "test" me. That kind of thing always backfires. If you have that little faith in your friend, I guess you shouldn't be friends with her.
2007-03-28 20:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
testing is a sick approach to a relationship.
2007-03-28 20:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmm.....
yeah, it would be dumb.
when girls do it its dumb too.
and yeeeaaaah.
2007-03-28 20:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by valeriejcz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋