lets call her Hannah.(not her real name)
we've been bestfriends for like a month now, and we're KINDA close. i have a lot of bestfriends too, but she seems like the only one to stand out from them b/c of the things she does to me. she insults me a lot, telling me i'm fat but my friends say i'm not. she would go like "hey, you have a lot of fat on your arms." and say that in front of other people, when it's not true. she told me that b/c it didn't seem like its mean since her mom always tells her that. then after she insults me, she'd be the one mad. i'm mad at her too. my bestfriends were there when she told me that and 1 of em said that she heard Hannah insulting me in class. its true then Hannah just walked out the room, all mad. i NEVER say anything mean to Hannah. but she always does to me.
should i still be bestfriends w/ her? y?
i dont really know if she is my bestfriend right now. she called me earlier, but i wasnt able to answer since i was hanging out w/ my friends.
2007-03-28 13:41:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she's a true friend, she wouldn't say that. end your friendship with her but don't be mad if your other friends still hang with her as long as they are still loyal to you.
2007-03-28 13:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, all I can say is friends grow apart over time, and usually 1 will insult someone over there own insecurities. Fat or not you carry yourself with pride and if she insults you , tell her she did, that will give you your answer if "she should still be your bestfriend" if she acts like screw it then nix'd that chick, if she apologizes then u know maybe the conversation needs to carried on so maybe she'll know how it effects you.
Peace
Tha E
2007-03-28 20:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by mike_is_a_single_dad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times thats what you call a best friend one that wont hide anything from you that would tell you straight up you kno....the kind that wont lie just to make you feel better you kno how you tell some friend "my hair is ****** up right?" and they answer "no its pretty" but most of the time they are lying and only your BEST FRIEnd would tell you the thruth " yeah ***** your hair is ****** up?" just so you dont go around thinkin your the **** cause supposably you got pretty hair today.. ... thats a best friend sumtimes its hard.. i kno.. what you should do is tell her the same thing sounds to me that she makes herself feel better by telling you dat so i say you do it too.. and once she gets tired of it she'll tell you something and you confront her " well it doesn't feel so good right .. yeah i kno how do you think it made me feel"? then go from there if she doesn't stop after that then move on im pretty sure you have better friends that are worth your time
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-28 20:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call my self fat everyday, sometimes several times a day..and I'm still my own best friend.. So yeah, keep her around, just call her.. Neurotic
2007-03-28 20:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a friend with issues, unfortunately she feels she can unload some of them on you...you need to let her know you don't like it when she say such things about you in front of others, however, if you want to be a real friend, talk to me in confidence when we are alone...no ones perfect, she certainly isn't but she still can be your friend.
2007-03-28 20:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have (sorry) HAD a friend like that except she says different things and this is what i did.. i sent her a really long email telling her off and said don't call me don't try to apologize and leave me alone and it worked
2007-03-28 20:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must not be a very good friend because a best friend wouldn't diss you like that. So no you shoudn't be friend with her unless she stops. Because she should know what she is saying hurts your feelings.
2007-03-28 20:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Deshay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firends are there to support and help you though things it dosent sound like she dose it sounds like she can't be friends with anyone because she dosen't like herself move on thats what i would do
2007-03-28 20:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by buterflyes69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to understand that her mom is being mean - and hey if you're fat you'd know it already; it's not like you can hide it
2007-03-28 20:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not really your friend then..its hard but just move on and meet better people
2007-03-28 20:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Maggie May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋