i wonder if im right or wrong?

Question

ive been married for many years my husband, ill use a diffrent name "jackie" works in the nursing field ever scence he started this type of work every time im at his job to get him some girl comes out or walks by and says something to him and this has been at every nursing job hes ever had, but he tells me at home no "young" women works there and its all old women but ive never seen any "old women" walk out only ones my age, ive got to the point here lately when this happens i say something to him in front of the women to embaress him because he lies to me, i dont no if im wrong or not but i am hurt at the way he lies to me i dont work now but when i did i respected him by not flirting with men and i think i deserve the same respect, i feel lonely and betrayed on a daily basis, this last job he took he sweared to me he wouldent make his women friends but once again in the last week 2 has spoke to him in front of me.i wish i could reverse it and show him how it feels.am i wrong or right

Answer 1

Ok, well if he is talking to them in front of you there shouldnt be a problem. They are his co-workers and it would be rude of him to ignore them if they were to talk to them. There is nothing wrong with flirting its part of human nature. Everyone does it whether they realize it or not. Ask yourself. Does he come home late? Does he sneak off to make personal phone calls, etc. If not why are you worrying...it looks more like your jealous....

Answer 2

In some way, I believe you may be a bit jealous. When you retire, you've got plenty more time to think and sometimes our thoughts are not always right. Our perceptions are influenced by our own feelings. Your husband likes flirting and wouldn't you say it is not normal for a man who is healthy? It does not mean the man does not love you anymore dear heart. If you have shown signs of being jealous, that was probably the reason he told you it was all old women! You should laugh it out and joke with him about it.

There is no harm done when a man and a woman speak even in front of their spouse! Please don't do anything foolish to humiliate him; it might turn against you. I hope you succeed in leaving your insecurities behind and move towards happiness with the person you love.
May your life be filled with moments of pure delight and memorable joys in your pursuit of happiness.

Answer 3

Where's the trust? Have you seen him do anything other than "speak" to "the young Lady's"?

It could become really uncomfortable at work for him with his co-workers if he ignored them.

Jealousy can ruin a relationship and it sounds as if this may be what you're doing to yours.

Answer 4

yeah i bet you had a good friend where you used to work...good MALE friend. whether you realized it or not, you probably did and maybe that's just what your seeing with your husband but 2 you it looks like flirting; you might be subconcously (sorry about the spelling) jealous

Answer 5

you shouldn't stop him from having female friends, ut he also shouldn't be flirting. Don't be intimidated because theyre the same age as you- he married you because theres something about you he loves. Unless you're having other marital problems, let this one go.

Answer 6

what's inaccurate with realy? did you recommend certainty.. properly then its purely undeniable and straightforward too actual and persons take to extraordinarily.. take it at some point at a time and luxuriate in existence it has a tendency to fly via......

Answer 7

If you had to ask this question you already know you are wrong.. people who think they are right wouldnt even ask such a question (dosent matter if they are right or wrong.. its just what they think that answers the question)