This morning I just found out something that is kind of unusual to me is very gross about my soon to be ex hubby and it kind of hurled me inside all. just kind of to think about found on website that is very gross out there... like with man/man or woman/woman (in sexual way on webcam site) relationship... could this end of relationship there or end of marriage all the suddenly? I do respect them but my ex watch those man to man action... make me so sick... what do you think would it be nailed as adultrty or worst?
I'm freakin' confused will be soon ex wife... Help?!
2007-03-28 13:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by Country Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well. I am seeking divorce back in dec and my lawyer reccommand for me to wait for 6 months for abomandment (he left me when I was sick) but I just found out today... I hate to think of it... it was on my computer... it is totally gross... I didn't know about it until today... again... it is so grossed out that I never want to see him again... I don't know if he watch it for fun or what... make me and even that person who ask me if i know anything about it... I never want to imgaine that..
2007-03-28 15:15:13 · update #1
Thanks Alexdara (sorry for mispelling your user id name...)
2007-03-28 15:18:58 · update #2
congrats on soon becoming an ex wife! sounds like he swings the other way.
2007-03-28 13:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pornography is a corrupting influence today. Men/Men action is disgusting. Is your husband BI or does he just think this is fun to watch? Do you think he has committed Adultery with someone else not on this web-site? You have every right to be upset, and grosssed out. You have been with this man in an intimate way. Tell him what you found out, and tell him how you feel about it. You have a right to leave, and seperate for awhile, either until he gets help and stops this, or makes some decisions concerning his life style. Don't be intimate with him until you know the truth about his fidelity. If you decide to get a Divorce, that is up to you, for only you as the innocent party can decide that. Go talk to a family councelor, and I hope things work out for you.
2007-03-28 13:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would have to say, that is pretty messed up, but if yall are doing thru a divorce ,(of course i dont know the issues yall have thats caused ure divorce) but may be that has alot to do with why yall arent staying married. and if its not come up from him in the issues yall have had to deside divorce, then you might wanna confront him but not in an away where he's feeing like your attacking him. yes i agree it is a nasty thought due to my reason it's just morally wrong, but you really can't totally write him off as the person you stll care about as a friend or whatever, you'll have to try to except him for the person he is. He cant help who he is, but i myself dont understand why guys like guys, n girls like girls. he will be judged for that not u.... i hope my insites helped a little,cuz we can't change who we care about but don't hate him for what he is... and i'm sure the reality of you finding this out isnt a good feeling but everything happens for a reason and u will be able to focus on what you need to do as far as your future of your well being.. the truth does hurt sometimes but then again it's the tools to our well being in the long run. the final conclusion it may could be labeled as adultry but most people in america look at it alot different on the worse side, so more than likely the favor would be on your side.....leigh
2007-03-28 13:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by littlebit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh!!! I could not even imagine! I would have to place it as adultry. I don't really know what more to say. That is just sick.
2007-03-28 13:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy-fied 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is so demented you need to run girl that is so sick, and I just had a slice of tomato pizza!
2007-03-28 13:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alrighty then,,,your man likes to watch men going at it with each other,,,,hmmmmmm ask your self why he wants a divorce,,,sounds like he is still in the closet,,,but dont look in the closet you might not like what you see
2007-03-28 13:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by geminis_do_it_twice 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are talking about. Are you American? Was he watching gay porn and you will divorce him over this? I don't know what you are saying...
2007-03-28 13:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes!!!
2007-03-28 13:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋