ok my so called friend is a whore still?

Question

ok i asked a question yesterday on what should i do cuz my friend is a whore and she got pregnant and she wants an abortion etc and i got 40 answers i took my time and read all of them and i took all of yalls advice so when i talked to my friend she told me to shut the *** up ***** and leave me alone for ever and my parents saw what she said to me and then my parents got mad and said they werent going to let her leave with us and then she says i dont give a *** go to hell all u b!tches go to hell and that really pissed me off i tried to help her and the baby in her stomach and she tells me and my parents that bs oh god what should i do with that girl should i leave her alone and let her continue being a hooker and getting an abortion or should i still try and help her after what she said to me and my loving caring parents i really need ya advice on this one and if u want to see the question i asked yesterday it was "my friend is a whore" so if u want to look that up can so help me plz!

Answer 1

I think she is going through a stage in life. She did not make the right choice; consequently she is suffering the consequences. Maybe she answered you that way because she is passing through a rough time, and does not know what is going to happen next. In my opinion, you should keep supporting her because she needs love and comprehension. Do not tell her what to do anymore, just let her know that you are always going to be there if she needs your help. It is her choice to have an abortion; I do not personally agree with it, but let her make her own decision about that.

Answer 2

She is not your friend. She probably has been down this road before. After a while you really could be a whore like her and the b. she wants you to be. You have been a friend to her do not waste anymore time. Now your parents are involved. Some people like what they do and that is it. She called you names because you are not even knowing. Find someone like you and get on with it. She will come back but you will have another whore by then.

Answer 3

Hmm, well that's nice of you to want to help her. It's really a bad situation though. I don't think you should really try that hard to help her though if she doesn't want to be helped...which is what it looks like. She will learn eventually from her behavior..she may just need to learn on her own and learn from the consequences. Talk to her in 5 years if she keeps the baby..she will not be as whorish I guarantee. She will have had to grow up some. Just be there if she needs you. Don't resort to calling her names or judging her. That's not what she needs...she clearly can't handle that right now. She's in denial. Just tell her your opinion on abortion, promiscuitiy, and leave it at that. Let her decide for herself. It's her life..if she doesn't want to listen to a caring friend then that's her problema!!!

Answer 4

If she responded in that manner, maybe she doesn't want your help. Maybe she doesn't trust your brand of kindness. Why don't you leave her alone as she so nicely requested. By the way, why do you insist on calling your friend a whore? If she's of such low moral character, why do you want to be around her? There's an old saying, "Birds of a feather flock together." Be sure that you are not telling on yourself while you try to put her down.

Answer 5

You are a wonderful friend for one to care so much, but it seems as if she has made her mind up and is going to do what she wants even if its not the best decision... I hate to say that because abortion is just like murder to someone that will never get a chance of life.... If she blew up on you and your parents the way she did she doesnt want your help.... Im sorry but good try....
Hope everything works out for you and your friend..

Answer 6

You are smack in the middle of a very difficult situation. The position your friend finds herself in is by her hand and her hand alone. She sounds extremely angry about her circumstances and is taking it out on those closest to her. Name calling is never the solution to a life changing event. Support and understanding is the only road if you want to keep this friend. Sadly she is disrespecting you and your family. She really needs adult help to sort out where she goes from here. You do not have enough life experience to help guide her.

Answer 7

A friend can only do so much to help another friend. But if taht person doesn't want it then let it go because you done what you could. Yes i know this is mean but you can't do something another person doesn't want to. She doesn't realizes her mistakes she is making and when it's too late she will realizes then want forgiveness but people like that don't deserve second chances when they refuse help from others who only want good.

Answer 8

Sometimes people say things that they don't really mean because they get defensive. I wouldn't disregard all that she said but accept the fact that she probably didn't mean it all and that because most people are stubborn, she probably won't apologize. I didn't read your other question. I would let her do her own thing. Give her some time. She has to make her own mistakes. You can only do so much.

Answer 9

she's probably just under a lot of stress.
i bet she doesn't mean to be such a *****.
maybe she's worried, just like you are.
so once you started acting like you understand what she's going through..that probably set her off. so just talk to her. not in a "sugarcoat and please don't yell at me" kinda thing. go over to her house. and the first thing you have to say is sorry. tell her you apologize for acting like it was YOUR life, and that you understood. but you were just trying to help her get through this, cuz' that's what friends do. maybe then she'll get some sense.

and i wasn't saying that whole "apologize for acting like it was your buisness" thing, because i was trying to give you a hint or anything. it's just probably the thing she wants to hear, and that will at least get her calmed down. goodluck♥

Answer 10

Tell her your sorry that she is in the shape she is in ,no one is to blame but her because SHE made those choices and ANY choices she makes NOW and in the fitire are going to bring consequnces SHE WILL HAVE to live with.Tell her youll pray for her and if she EVER comes to her senses youll do what you can to help,but its HER decision.Until then you want nothing else to do with her, she will see she is losing decent freinds and it will make her think of the ones she has left.