My best friend started going out with this guy named jake. yesterday She told me to call her & that she'll hang up on him on the phone...but she didn't. then she lied by saying her brother was on the phone but i was talking to him on aim. and he was like...yeah she's on the phone w/ jake again...Then today i asked if she wanted to hang out over the weekend but her ex b/f might be there but other ppl too. So i asked if she would be ok w/ it *we didn't even make the plans yet i just wanted to know ahead of time* and she got all bitchy by saying she has a life now...b/c she got a boyfriend. She has changed now and its like she's putting her boyfriend in front of her friends. He even IMed me online *she gave him my s/n* and he was being a jerk, but she was fine w/ that. she read the convo b/c he sended it to her. I'm worried b/c she has changed now and i have no idea wat to do. plz help
2007-03-28 13:00:58 · 4 answers · asked by reptar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am actually goin threw that right now with 2 friends. All you do i ignore her. Then after a while when they break up, she will want to come crying to you because she thinks of you as her back up. If you still want to be friends with her be shure to let her know how bad she hurt you. And be shure she says sorry and truly means it.
2007-03-28 13:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that usually happens. i have been through that. just let them go and try not to worry about it. its gonna be hard. but watch......when they are done and over shes gonna be crying to u for help and comfort. when she does tell her how u felt. tell her all the stuff she missed out on and how u dont need a friend like that. she'll say sorry and want forgiveness. give it to her. but when she does it again drop her. u dont need friends like like.
2007-03-28 13:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find urself a real friend,she"ll be calling u after he dumps her or cheats on her..just say sorry i moved on,n i told u so..gl
2007-03-28 13:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it`s a boyfriend phase let it go and then when he brakes up with her ketch her when she falls...k?
2007-03-28 13:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kortnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋