Ok ladies, You have to choose between two guys. The first guy a complete stud in the bed,hes the best you ever had, but he's not motivated to do anything..ok lets call him 1 beer away for being a bumb..The second is the sweetest,nicest,most kind guy you have ever know.great job, not rich but does ok for himself, own a house..etc....But the sex really sucks BAD...which guy would you date or marry and why?
2007-03-28 12:53:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can teach the nice guy new tricks, but the bum will never change.
2007-03-28 13:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for the second guy because he has more good qualities than bad. Sex can always get better. When my husband and I were dating I didn't have an orgasm during sex for a year and now we've been married for 14 years and I have multiple orgasms every time. Every one has their own sexual style , it is different with every person, you just need to learn what each person likes and dislikes and all will change and get better over time. Usually bums stay bums. Definitely the second guy!!!
2007-03-28 13:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the second guy as I could teach him sex and how to be good in bed lol. Much easier then a guy who has to get a job. I would mcuh rather be loved and treated right then to only have the attention just in bed.
2007-03-28 13:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second, definately, i can subsitute sex with other things. IF he's nice to me, sweet, and going to take care of me and make me feel like i'm queen of the world. than that's what i want. The stud w/ the good sex, that's going to wear out. And it's just going to be a empty relationship.
2007-03-28 12:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably neither, but if I had to chose the sweet one. I'd rather work on sex techniques with a kind sweet one, then have a psychopath sitting on my couch when I come home from a long day at work. Too easy.
2007-03-28 14:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The uh, second guy? If he's so motivated in other life areas, I would be willing to bet he'd be into learning what things you like so much in bed.
2007-03-28 14:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Leila M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have already married guy #1! You have described my hubby exactly! It's hard at times, but I love him and wouldn't have him any other way!! By the way, he just read this over my shoulder and was highly offended that he is being referred to as a bum!!
2007-03-28 12:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Racheal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can sex be that great if there's no respect? Go for the emotional connection and everything else will follow. Look at it this way - you don't have the pressure of being good yourself! :)
2007-03-28 13:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with # 2, sex is something that can always be worked at..more practice the better you get! Plus sex is not the most important thing in a marriage
2007-03-28 13:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for the second guy, thats where I come in when it comes to the sex issue....Base from the criteria, I dont think he is that bad to teach....
2007-03-28 13:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by stilettofan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely guy #2, bad sex can always be fixed! Most real men can be directed on how to please you if you do it in a sensitive way. Don't tell him he's bad in bed just be open about your needs and he will catch on!
2007-03-28 13:27:44 · answer #11 · answered by penguindreams2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋