How do you consol a Model who likes you after she is dumped without cheating on your gf?

Question

I am engaged to the worlds cutest filipina girl and would never cheat and I will not.

Anyway I know an Abercrombie model. She just got dumped moved out of her BF's house and is very sad. I have always been her close friend cause she had a crush on me but I've always wanted to just be friends because of our different lifestyles.

I stand by that but I need to find a way to show her She is beautiful and worthwhile and comfort her without doing anything my fiance would be angry at me for.

She's coming on to me a little reboundy and I want to turn her down in the nicest possible way so as to keep her from hitting rock bottom and getting back on booze and drugs.

Answer 1

First of all, let your fiance know what's going on in your friend's life and let her know that this girl is close to you as in family close, not romantic close. She will probably not be spuer-pleased, but at least she will have an opportunity to talk to you about her thoughts and feelings on the whole thing. Second, make an effort to only spend time with your model friend in public places. Don't be super-obvious about this; it will only hurt her feelings, but always suggest going to a coffee shop or restaurant or the mall, etc. to spend time and talk. This will make it a lot harder for her to put the moves on you and ease some of the fears your fiance might have about you spending time with this girl. Lastly, if your fiance absolutely does not want you spending time with this girl, then don't. Yes, she should trust you, but think about how you'd feel if some stud-looking pro athlete friend of hers who has a crush on her suddenly started needing a lot of her attention. You'd have some reservations, too. At the end of the day, all you can do is support people; they have to want to save themselves.

Answer 2

Well, just make her realize that you do not want to go in that direction with her. Just be clear about that. Just spend as much time as you feel like with her as a "friend." You could check up on her with a call every now and again. You could invite her to things that you do with a group of people. You could get her a little gift of some sort just as "thinking of you." She is a friend...so you can do things for her as long as you stay within some boundaries. Just treat her as positively as possible and tell her some of the things you mention on here. Let her know she is worthwile and beautiful and that you care about her and want her to do well and not go back to self-destructive behavior. I think you can make it work.

Answer 3

That is the sweetest thing ever! Explain to her that while she is a beautiful person, you truly are in love with your future wife. Let her know that you will do anything you can to make her feel better. Go out to a singles club with her for moral support, and show her that there are other fish in the sea!

Answer 4

I think you should steer clear of the whole thing. It sounds like you might be just a little tempted and are trying to convince yourself otherwise. If you truly love your girlfriend you shouldn't put yourself in a place where you might betray her. I'm sure the model has plenty of other shoulders to cry on.

Answer 5

just talk to her---ask ur fiance if u can take her to dinner---maybe take both of them to dinner-------and just let her know that u r there for her as a friend but have a person that u love dearly and are not going to cheat on---not hard at all

Answer 6

what makes you think that the only way you can make her feel better is to have sex with her or soemthing like that? dont be an asshole. you can talk to her and make her feel better without doing anything to hurt your fiance. its not THAT hard of a concept really. come on.