I'm a 24 year old single mom with some college level education, I am in the process of re-enrolling and just wondering if there is advice you could offer or things to "warn" me about? Thanks so much!
2007-03-28 12:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by Staying Quiet 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
Clap,clap clap...cheering 4 you!!!..its never to late to go back to school.Dont let anyone tell you you cant,I did it too...its a bit harder with kids,due to the studying etc,the best advice I could give is dont let guilt stop you.There will be times (finals) when class and homework become a bit consuming and you will feel guilty,or neglectful,and consider quitting,and wieghing the importance of kids school etc.....they are both important,you need one to better take care of the other,not to mention,without education,you will be at work more due to lack of funds,so just hang in there and finish.Your kids will respect you for it in the end....so pull up you boot strings and have at it...good luck to you!!!...ps the schools these days are filled with your age group and with chioldren,alot offer childcare,resources etc....you will do fine...hahaha..ps I just read some other answers,um you dont need to fit in!!,the kids in college need to be following YOU,not the other way around,college is not high school,its about you not clicks or opinions...you pay not play in college....
2007-03-28 13:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by 2fitornot2fit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, being older gives you a much better perspective on why you're really and what you want to accomplish. You're not going back to get laid, get stoned, challenge the establishment, find acceptance, spread your wings, or sow your oats. You're going back because college is a means to an end, to get the skills that make you marketable in the real world, skills that will give you a higher income for you and your child. That's really what this is all about.
Remember that the amount of time you spend studying, asking questions and preparing is directly proportional to your grade, and a higher grade WILL make you more marketable. Remember that you're really not THAT much older than the average student, and that there will be many people in your same position. Learn from everyone - professors, TAs, fellow students - and take advantage of office hours and study groups. Remember this is college - cliques and social status are a thing of the past. Strive to be the know-it-all, the curve buster, and do everything you can to get the best grades possible.
Remember that if you do well, you can always go for your Masters. It will suck trying to do everything, but keep it in perspective - you'll be under 30 with a graduate degree, with 35 more working years, and you'll be starting out at a significantly larger salary than if you stop at a bachelors (which itself is much greater than you could get without going back). Over the course of your working career, this could be MILLIONS of dollars (with an “s”) - a massive benefit for you and your child. It's worth the sacrifice.
Maybe that's the most important thing to remember of all.
2007-03-28 13:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing to warn you about except that if you decide to go for more than 2 yrs planning on transferring then make sure you have the right classes to transfer w/. For instance I had already taken two science classes but they were both the wrong ones! Making me go another semester. Also it is to your advantage to let the teacher know your a single mom. They tend to be a bit easier on you if they know it. I tend to study while I am @ school or when my kids go to bed. We have to do that cause studying w/ a child can be very difficult. They need so much attention. If you have any problems or need a pep talk you can email me. Good luck!
Lisa
2007-03-28 12:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by LUCY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on the work and not what separates you from your class mates.
Take as many courses you can that match up with your interests--don't be afraid of anything that may sound tough. Give it a chance.
Take as many Humanities classes (History, English, Philosphy, Foreign Languages, Art History, Music) as you can fit in since they teach you an enormous amount about life.
A couple of social science subjects like Economics, Psychology and Sociology are good to take too, because they teach you a lot about who you are, and why you are that way. That's important at any age.
2007-03-28 12:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think one thing you should now is that you are going to meet other people in your same situation. New friends with the same interests. Good lick and I'm proud you are seeking higher education. Your child has a good role model.
2007-03-28 12:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the night classes, during the day it is like highschool all over again and can be a head-ache
2007-03-28 12:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by gsxr650 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you might be typing a lot. every time you have a report or something that you are typing, re-save it every 4 mins.
you'll thank me later.
2007-03-28 12:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself n remember 2 study. dont try 2use 'hip lingo' just b u cuz thats wat people r going 2 like; a person that is focused on learning and not busy trying to fit in n act like a wannabe-young-n-cool-again type person. so just stay focus and you'll make it. i wish u good luck and hope u do well.
2007-03-28 12:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not that old so this might not apply to you. Don't be that old person in class that answers every question.
2007-03-28 12:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tyrone Biggums 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋