I'm 14 and in school, i sometimes look at guys cuz i wish that i looked like them? does that make me gay??? I like girls, but I haven't had a girlfriend yet. Please help!!!
2007-03-28 12:45:43 · 18 answers · asked by Sam L 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks. Now i know that i am not gay.
2007-03-28 13:32:42 · update #1
No silly! Admiring someones physical appearance doesn't make you gay.Wishing that you were that tall, or had nice hair or whatever isn't the same as say.......
wishing you could make out with the guy. And unless that happens I wouldn't worry, and even if that is what your feeling, that's fine to. You are you simple as that, be happy with what you have and if it's something you can change like having muscles, work out to get them. If it's your height or something, well... God made you the way you are for a reason. Your fine the way you are anyway.
Hope this helps. And when the right girl comes along, you'll know. :)
2007-03-28 13:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not gay a lot of guys look at other guy to compare or wish they look different. Don't worry you are a normal 14 year old!
2007-03-28 12:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Countb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If every guy that looked at other men and wished they looked like them was gay, we'd all be gay. And i would be a very happy person. so no you are not gay.
2007-03-28 12:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u are, if you want to look like them that doesn't mean ur gay jeez!! it's just more common for girls, like i would love to look like paris hilton cuz she's so pretty and everything, but im not a lesbian. u probably just want to look like them cuz they r hotter or something, like even though im not lesbian, i can tell which girls are hotter than others, also u said u liked girls which is a total sign of not being gay, don't worry you are not gay!
2007-03-28 12:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rufus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that does NOT make you gay! if you were gay you would most likely look at guys 2 seperate ways- guys that look the way you wished you looked & guys you wish you dated.. since you just look at guys and envy their appearance that doesn't make you attracted to them!
2007-03-28 13:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking at them just because you wished you look like them, then you're not gay. If you're checking them out or something, you might be.
2007-03-28 12:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Appono Astos 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't be looking at a guys body! Well, just tell them i wish i had a body like them!
2007-03-28 13:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ahurstangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just envy. You wish you had their look or their build. Does not make you gay.
2007-03-28 15:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not dude dont worry happens alot and its just comparing yourself to that person and u like girls so na, but dont let todays society put stuff into your mind and tell u ur gay because you look at guys like that, find out who you really are by yourself
2007-03-28 12:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sam you're fine. Wanting to look like other guys isn't homosexuality, it's finding who you are in the group. Liking girls certainly isn't. Relax, - you're a regular guy.
2007-03-28 12:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋