when they are thinking about divorce or preparing for it? If they aren't argueing with each other or other obvious things. Tell me what you did if you have been in this situation.
2007-03-28 12:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my ex would work all the time, I mean from sunup till like midnight, then go out with his buddies in all free time he had, avoided me at all costs, made up excuses for family functions, if he was home he was in the garage or went to bed early... We fought hard, and then didnt speak for days on end... No more sex, he would sleep on the couch...
2007-03-28 12:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by rottie110 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They show less interest in sex and in each other. They dont talk that much anymore and become almost like strangers. They dont spend time together anymore and things like that. They could care less how each others day goes and they stop telling each other that they love each other. These are just some of the signs that show that they may be thinking og divorcing or that they are cheating.
2007-03-28 20:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well arguing in itself is not nesicarily a sign of divorce as so many couples do this on a regular basis--to me i would say a sign it not wanting to argue you know not talking at all because some people do get to the point where they just dont care and dont even have anything to say because it just does not matter to them- i would also say spending as much time away as possible like they work longer hrs or just do not come home for hrs and when they do just go right to bed to avoid talking-
2007-03-28 19:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when the couple are cold towards each other and show no passion (like arguing), then the end is near.
2007-03-28 20:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they stop arguing and agreeing with everything you have to say and act like you are the most wonderful thing on earth.
2007-03-28 19:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stop having sex and making love ...
stop arguing
stop caring for him
stop cooking
stop doing all his stuff
I went out more and didn't care to be home
I decide to move out on my own i have my baby I was 3 months pregnant when i decide to move on he was cheating on my after almost 2 yr marriage ....so I had to be calm for me and for my baby ..... it hurt but it was better this way ... NOW I am happily marriad with a great man who accepted me with my daugther and loves her very much we have beign together since she was almost 2 she is 6 and 1/2 rigth now!!
2007-03-28 19:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they talk about there single friends
they say things like "if i was single i would..."
they stay out all night at the bar
they start sleeping or hanging out in another room
they won't talk to you
they lie about where they were
they rather be texting or talking on there phone then talk to you.
those signs are what my husband did to want me to divorce him because he was having an affair
2007-03-28 19:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing usually isn't the best sign. Apathy is.
2007-03-28 20:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguing without yelling is healthy. Cheating and separating finances is a sign.
2007-03-28 19:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they stop arguing it means they've givin up trying the change the other person's mind.
2007-03-28 19:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋