We have been friends for a long time and we have so many things in common, sometimes I really think the similarities between us can’t be just coincidence, I really want her to be happy and successful and although because of the distance between us I don’t see her much often but she’s always on my mind. The problem is, maybe it seems cruel and stupid, but she’s not pretty enough to me, and I always dream of a girl more beautiful but with the exact same personality and attitude and everything else, which I haven’t been able to find in the past 3 years, now I don’t really know am I in love with her? And should we put our friendship into next level? Or I’m just desperate ?
2007-03-28 12:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
love doesn't exist
2007-03-28 12:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds perfect for you and yet you want someone prettier. Humans seem to think the "grass is always greener on the other side". If you go looking for someone with the same qualities, yet better looking....you may lose her.
How many chances in this life do you think you will have to find someone as great as her?
Yes, try and take your friendship to the next level and see what happens. You will later regret it if you don't. Doesn't mean you have to marry her. But you will always wonder if you made a huge mistake by not giving her a chance.
2007-03-28 19:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they say love is blind, so in my opinion, when ur in love wit sumbody, u think that person is perfect. u cant find a single flaw in her, u think shes the most beautiful girl in the world, shes smart, nice, all that crap. so when u think shes the best one out there, u know u love her. but thats how U see her, to other people, or most people, she can be the most evil person. but since u love her u dont see those things. thats just how i feel.
2007-03-28 19:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww... Ithink its sorat sad you don't think she's pretty enough. Why do looks matter? I mean, there's this one guy I know and all he cares about is physical appearance. I used to like him and he told me I was ugly. And all my friends say I'm pretty. But it brought my self-esteem down... so if she's your friend, she might like you. You sound like your meant to be together. Looks don't last when your old unless you have a plastic surgeon.
2007-03-28 19:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋