We have been friends for a long time and we have so many things in common, sometimes I really think the similarities between us can’t be just coincidence, I really want her to be happy and successful and although because of the distance between us I don’t see her much often but she’s always on my mind. The problem is, maybe it seems cruel and stupid, but she’s not pretty enough to me, and I always dream of a girl more beautiful but with the exact same personality and attitude and everything else, which I haven’t been able to find in the past 3 years, now I don’t really know am I in love with her? And should we put our friendship into next level? Or I’m just desperate ?
2007-03-28 12:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it would be nice to say that personality is the important thing and you shouldn't be concerned about appearance .. . after all we all change in time normally for the worse ... and can be affected by trauma as well .... but you are what you are
it wouldn't be fair to her (or you) to say she does it for you, if in fact she doesn't.
you dont have to deal with whether it should or shouldn't be the case .. only whether it is the case.
2007-03-28 12:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by hustolemyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you not desperate, you probably are in love with her. Go with how you feel and ask her if she likes you for more then just like a friend. Like this happen between me and a guy friend (i like him, he liked me) we both knew it but were to afraid to ask each-other so our friends did it for us!
Well that was last year when i was in 6 grade. :o) Now I dumped him and I made a bad mistake... :(
BUT! I think he likes me again to cuz i'm starting to like him again too. lol
GOOD LUCK!!!
â¥melissaâ¥
2007-03-28 12:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you're in love when you get that feeling that you're complete inside. If you get exhilarated when you're near her you may be in love, or otherwise you're both just good friends.
2007-03-28 12:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Durr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i for one don't really 'believe' in this so called love
but i guess u'll know when u r..
2007-03-28 12:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by pulse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋