I need some help?

Question

I want to ask this girl out, but I'm afraid she might say no. And I'm kinda shy, and its hard for me to talk to her.

Please help?

I do have a class with her at school, and I kinda sit next to her. Only about 1 or 2 seats away.

Answer 1

Start by asking her to something that isn't quite a date - like going for pizza after school or going to the library to do some school thing, etc. If she's interested in you she'll be more than happy to go for a slice of pizza or to the library. Remember, too, if you ask her to go for a slice of pizza or to the doughnut shop after school and she says "no" it isn't as big a deal as if she said "no" to going to the prom.

If she goes somewhere "small" and "non-date-y" with you a few times you can, from there, ask her if she'd like to go to the movies or to one of the dances.

Don't forget, though, even if she says "no", if she's a normal, nice, girl she will feel very complimented that you have asked; and even if she doesn't want to go for some reason there is absolutely no reason you should feel embarrassed about being told "no". She will feel complimented to be asked and think of how nice it was of you to ask.

Try to remember, too, things aren't life-or-death. You won't get all nervous if you remember that its only an invitation out for after school - and not life-or-death. Don't turn it into a bigger deal in your mind than it needs to be. She's just a person - like you.

Answer 2

talk to her about club penguin, you seem to be good at that! teehee, jk. Smile and wave at her and try and talk to her in between classes. If you don't give her a clue that you are into her, she'll never know! Try and get on her good side and talk about things she likes. Maybe if you find out her favorite movie ask her if she would like to come over and watch it sometime. If she rejects, (which she probably won't) probably means she's shy like you too! Maybe if you find out her favorite book or CD, have it "accidentally" fall out of your backpack, into her line of vision. Who knows, that might spark a conversation between you two about it. Even if you've never heard of the band or never read the book, do some research on it, so you're prepared to talk about it with her! Good Luck! you seem like a sweet guy, I don't see why she wouldn't wan to talk to you!

EDIT- first ask to watch the movie with some of your/her friends. It would be much more comfortable and you could get to know eachother more! and hey, it could turn out she's really annoying! (jk)

Answer 3

Maybe writing a note will help. Star a convo through notes and ask her what types of movies she likes then in person ask if she wants to go see it with you.

Answer 4

First, ask her if she wants to hang out with some friends and you. Then, from there, ask her if she wants 2 go 2 the movies. Before you know it, you're dating! Good luck!

I hope I helped.


PS:PLEASE CHOOSE ME AS YOUR BEST ANSWER!!!

Answer 5

just ask her to "hang out" or something or be friends till you get to know her better, then you wont be shy and you will know her better before going out with her cuz its not always a good idea to date someone you dont know well or are not comfortable with.

Answer 6

well i was in that same situation that you are in a few weeks ago.
like you...i was afraid...and shy and it was difficult to talk to her.

what i did was i took a few deep breaths and then talked to her...she said no but it made me realize that rejection was no big deal.

Answer 7

aww-that's cute :)
well, do you have any common interests? or maybe you share a class together?
those would be a good ice breaker/conversation starters.

good luck!!

Answer 8

ask her out the worst dat can happen is get a no.....or write her a note

Answer 9

Write her a note and give it to her.

Answer 10

Your shyness is just a big fat ego trip, get over it chicken!