i met a woman 2 weeks ago.we have talked and finnally had our first kiss.i'm 34 and am in college,i've givin up work for a year and have to live like a student to get by.She has two young fatherless boys. i have a 4 year old as well,will she judge me on the way i live withiut realizing it?i've always lived well but decided to live like a student while i was one.She might see me as a failure and not realize this because she is capable of dating guys who finished school 10 years ago and i'm worried about it.any advice?reread this question before answering,thank you.
2007-03-28 11:41:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I just feel weird because at any time i want i can easily gat a job.is my timming off or is this okay.I like her so much that if i have to quite school to have more money,i will,see my problem.
2007-03-28 11:46:01 · update #1
It really depends on the woman. She may see you going back to college as a good thing to advance your career. As long as you can make ends meet, and take care of your needs, you really shouldn't worry about what others' think...it's your life no matter what. Explain the "living like a college student thing" to her and the easy-job situation if she has any questions about it. If it doesn't come up, don't worry about it.
Personally, as a woman who has had a tough life, I prefer love over material things. Material things can be replaced, love isn't so easily replaced.
2007-03-28 14:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by dragonslayernd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think about quitting school over a woman who you met just two weeks ago and who may or may not see you as a failure for the way you have chosen to live your life? This seems illogical to me. Stay in school and enjoy your life. Show confidence in your choices. Women sense that kind of thing and are attracted to confident men. Don't jump the gun; it's too early to think in terms of her dating others or not. And here is another concept: when in doubt about how a woman feels about a situation, ask her! Women love to share what's on their mind and this is an attractive characteristic for a man to have. A man who is confident and not afraid to talk about feelings is a keeper! Good luck!
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2007-03-28 18:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by themysticvoodoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally I've found that women who have been in previous relationships that didn't work out and especially if they have kids, are looking for a certain level of security. They want to see that the man they wind up with can provide for them and their children. Odds are the guy they were with before was a bum who couldn't or most likely wouldn't.
I'm not saying they expect you to make 6 figures and have a big house or anything, but I think most are looking to see you at least have a steady job that pays enough to provide a decent home life.
2007-03-28 18:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your giving her to much power over you and I bet she doesn't even know you are doing this -- 2 weeks - Stop trying to impress and address your own insecurity's - She might this and she might that - She may not feel any of those things at all
2007-03-28 19:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you, she will be regardless of your situation but you've to be understanding with her if she doesn't because she has two young fatherless boys
2007-03-28 18:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by solstice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all women want materials as a sign of your love
2007-03-28 18:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Seamus S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋