two of my really good childhood friends are being really wierd lately. like lately they've gotten really tight and sometimes it feels like i'm the third wheel. like when there not together theyre like fine with me but when they do get together they kinda ignore me and im just liek totally lost on whats going on. i'm not sure if i should still be friends with them cuz i'm tired of all this b.s. what should i do?
2007-03-28 11:39:37 · 11 answers · asked by soph123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you shuld tell them how you feel and think about if you said anything to hurt them lately
2007-03-28 11:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by erikitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before, and I don't think they're ignoring you on purpose. Your best bet is to confront them and tell them how you feel. Get their opinion, and settle what's bothering you. But even if they've gotten really close, you should still hangout with them and keep a friendship. Hope everything works out!
2007-03-28 18:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by stacichu7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all learn new things and change or move on with our lives. i think appreciate that they are still good friends to you when they are apart. It would have been an issue if they completely started acitng weird toward you. They still consider you very special and shouldn't that be enough? Friendship is very easy to lose, try to keep it when you have the chance because after you make an issue it'll be very ahrd to gain back. Good luck!
2007-03-28 18:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have actually been in this exact situation... Umm, I know that i always felt comfortable being around my two friends when they were together, and i know its hard, but you need to tell them how you feel and see what they think of it, and if they dont notice it, then they arent good friends and you should find new ones
2007-03-28 19:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mom2B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont give up You all are friends and good friends u should be able to explain how u r feeling and then u all can have a great laugh.
2007-03-28 18:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by lou lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront both of them in a pleasant manner.
I'm sure you're just overreacting.
Losing a friends is like losing a part of your soul.
2007-03-28 18:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jacques 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me, my two best friends started hanging out with each other and then I asked them who their best friend was and they both said each other. I was really sad. But then I got over and thought that maybe I wont be their best friend, but you can still hang out with them and have fun, don't let it you down. just keep them apart when your hanging out with one
2007-03-28 18:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Your Add Here! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that situation too. i just kinda go with the flo and sometimes i even talk to them about it.
2007-03-28 18:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by lolo smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is happening to me 2
if there REALLY nice to u and never did something bad still be there freind
if not...
see wat there doing and figure it out and then u will think carefully
or just talk to them
Good luck
2007-03-28 18:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Liza.jigsaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some new friends! It's always good to have new friends! :)
Good luck!!
2007-03-28 18:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋