A female friend consistantly flaked out on dates that we had made with each other. After about the 12th no show no call, I was a bit short with her. She was said I seemaed a little bitter and and decided not to talk to me. I blew up and said all sorts of bad things. I've since apologized numerous times but she wont talk to me and asked me not to contact her. I realize she mad , and with good reason. But I have very valid reasons for yelling and saying the things I said as well. How do I gewt her to listen and let me make things right?
2007-03-28 11:14:38 · 4 answers · asked by shoelessrick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
properly for now it appears that evidently like the final element so you might do is what your individuals are telling you to do... bypass with them and ask for forgiveness. while you're very truthful approximately it i'm helpful that he ought to forgive you. exceptionally via fact which you adult males have usual one yet another via fact which you have been youthful. an occasion that's comparable-ish could be like whilst my buddy that i've got usual via fact that we've been little toddlers went around telling people who i had emotions for this relatively creepy guy that kinda stalked me (could sound recommend... even nevertheless it replaced into real... he replaced into strange) via fact i've got been going around telling people who i could met this relatively warm guy (the creeper and the different guy i met had a similar call) she in simple terms reported "it replaced into basically a humorous tale." and in the beginning up i replaced into relatively pissed and that i refused to communicate to her till it replaced into something to enable her comprehend how po'd i replaced into. yet finally (after each week or 2) i could gotten over the preliminary embarrassment and anger and forgave her and we began putting out returned. so in case you adult males relatively are stable friends and characteristic usual one yet another for subsequently long then i'm helpful that he will forgive you. :))
2016-11-24 20:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by tallant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her telling everything you feel make it heartfelt. Maybe she wont be your friend again, I dont know anyone who likes being yelled at, but maybe she got the point and wont flake again
2007-03-28 11:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this friend doesn't value your friendship as much as you value hers. Send her flowers at her place of work with a note just saying I'm sorry, please call.
2007-03-28 11:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her choclates, flowers, gifts and kip calling her to ask for forgivness... it will take months but thats the least u can do...
2007-03-28 11:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋