ok look. i thought this girl was my best friend, but come to find out she has been talking about me behind my back with my other best friend. but my other bestfriend told her i wouldnt ever do any of that stuff. okay first she said that i am only friends with my highschool friend because she has a car and that is not true. she also called me worthless. that made me cry my eyes out. i had to forgive her for a little bit but then she started getting annoying again. when i liked a boy she ruined it with him by she kept asking him all day and she did not tell me. she did the same thing with another guy 2. so what should i do i seriously need help. people say i should beat her up. what do u think. please help me.
2007-03-28 11:11:38 · 5 answers · asked by ashfry101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First I think you should speak to that friend if you haven't already done so. Tell her the truth about how you feel about what she is doing and wait to see how she reacts. If she doesn't change tell her that the friendship cannot continue if she doesn't change her attitude. If she doesn't change, find a better TRUE friend. By the way friends don't bring each other down by calling each other worthless and they don't talk behind each other's backs either. Look for a friend that is more TRUSTWORTHY and who deserves to have you as a friend.
P.S Do not beat up her up. It will only degrade you and bring you down to her level.
P.P.S You are NOT worthless! (hope you didn't believe her when she told you so) the fact that you have been so patient and forgiving with her so far shows that you really are worth a lot.
GOOD LUCK !!!
2007-03-29 13:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ Melody♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sometimes people need a good beating but I think the best thing you should do is stay away from her and choose your friends a little wiser.
2007-03-28 18:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, don't hit her, that'll just open a whole new bunch of crap. Tell her you know what she's been saying, and that you'd never do that to her, and then say good bye. With friends like that who needs enemies? Right. Your other bf sounds like she's a true friend. 'Cuz real friends NEVER do you like that. Not ever.
2007-03-28 18:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Tiilynn♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a friend like this, get an alligator.
2007-03-28 18:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw.........poor thing!! um...stay away from her and dont talk to her if she still is mean DONT BEAT HER UP!!! that will just make it worse ok? make new friends make a new "group" and dont let her in!! k? GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-28 18:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋