In school for no reason, I had the sudden impulse to cross-dress...
2007-03-28 11:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was raised to think being gay and bi isnt right, yet I am having these impulses... whats wrong with me?
2007-03-28 11:17:57 · update #1
Cross dressing is not necessarily homosexual behavior. There are plenty of gay/bi/lesbian support groups in my town...seek someone out who can give you an honest perspective; you won't offend anyone. Sexuality can be a scary thing but you don't have to be alone.
2007-03-28 11:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has impulses. Punching the @ssh*le who cut in line, getting on stage at a kareoke bar, etc, most of the time we don't act on them. Fantasy is fine I would however suggest you not act on this impulse since the consequences would outweigh any sort of reward. Does your school have a dress up day like powder puff football where you could be a cheerleader for a day? That would be an acceptable outlet. Once you open that Pandoras Box however, you may become an adrenaline junkie which is what is behind doing forbidden acts.
2007-03-28 11:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rico E Suave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Look at it this way: who, exactly, said that women must wear dresses and men must wear pants?
That's right . . . NOBODY! Head over to Scotland; the kilt is a form of skirt that is worn for ceremonial dress, and it's not considered abnormal for a guy in Japan to wear a skirt.
If you feel more at home in the clothing that "belongs" to the opposite sex, go for it. Gender (not physical sex, but gender itself) is an artificial state created by society, and there's no reason to conform to it if it makes you uncomfortable. I certainly don't!
2007-03-28 11:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by living_in_a_bell_jar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cross-dressing doesn't imply homosexuality.
Let me break it down:
Homosexual behavior: Two men have sex. Two women have sex.
Homosexual orientation: A man is sexually attracted to another man. A woman is sexually attracted to another woman.
Cross-dressing: A man wears women's clothes. A woman wears men's clothes.
2007-03-28 11:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't!!!! Just becuase you have an impulse doesn't mean you should follow through with it!!!
2007-03-28 11:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by jlpark91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters how someone dresses. If you want to please other people then forget it cause they will find something to ridicule you about. Many people are butt holes and do what ever is necessary to make other people feel bad.
2007-03-28 11:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in school. nowhere else?
2007-03-28 11:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋