i love women and have a girlfriend now for sometime. about a month ago i met this girl in school who appeared to a be a beautiful asian girl. after i got to know her i found out that she was a He. he was more feminin than any girl i ever met. does it make me gay that i like him. i have never been attracted to guys , but if they are very feminin and look like a girl dress like a girl and actlike a girl i seem to be attracted to them. by the way i have no problem or shame being gay or bi or whatever. im just trying to figure my selfout !
2007-03-28 10:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by jorden md 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
or what.
2007-03-28 10:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are bi. Think about what attracts you to the Asian "girl" - you mention she is very feminine. If she is female down south that doesn't make you bi since you are not attracted to men or masculinity you are attracted to her femininity. Physically though not genetically your friend is female if the surgery was total. Also I may add psychologically as well. Now if there is extra ahem equipment down there, and you are attracted to that then you may be bi or at least dabbling and feel safe in light of the feminine aspects of this Asian ex he. No matter what to thy own self be true what ever that may be.
2007-03-28 11:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rico E Suave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his femininity that attracted you and you have never been attracted to the guys in the locker room right? I think it is just one of those mysterious gender questions that may never be answered. One of the ladies where I work is gay and when I saw her with her lady lover, I thought, "Wow! What a nice looking guy!" Don't stress and let things just proceed as you would with any friend.
2007-03-28 11:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well I believe that if you did not kno that she was a he than you are not gay and I also think that everybody has seen somebody of the same sex or even known them and has said to their self if i was homosexual i would be interested in her/him...i know that i have. But all in all i think that you aren't gay you are just attracted to him because he favors so much like a girl. I have seen girls on the train that look like a down right dude and thought they were cute and my friend would tell me sweetie that's a guy. and I would usaully just laugh it off because it is so crazy how people can fix themselves up to look like the opposite sex.
2007-03-28 11:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to feminine girls/guys, then you're likely to be straight or bi with a straight preference.
I am attracted to masculine guys only. If I ever found out that my bf was actually a girl, i'd be freaked out a little...not gonna lie.
2007-03-28 11:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a choice you have to make! You seem straight to me. Just remember, inorder to get an A+ girl/guy, you have to be an A+ guy/girl. If you what a girl who is devoted to you, and only you, you have to do the same.
P.S I don't feel it's right be gay!!! However, i don't dislike them any less.
2007-03-28 11:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by jlpark91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you generally don't find yourself attracted to men, then chances are you are not bi. You thought it was a girl, but it turned out to be a guy. No big deal.
2007-03-28 11:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a phrase, i learned a long time ago, comes to mind.
"stand for something or you'll fall for anything."
2007-03-28 11:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but im jelous. :(
2007-03-28 11:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by iwill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋