she's having twins
2007-03-28 10:47:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yikes, so young!!!
How you can "deal" with her is to be there for her and give her lots of support. She'll need it!! Such a shame though, babies having babies.........a whole youth thrown away.
2007-03-28 10:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of my friends just had twins on January 4th, 2007 and she had just recently turned 16 in december. She didnt know she was pregnant for the longest time and then when she did go and find out she was already like 5 months. NO LIE!!!!
It's not so much of you dealing with the situation its more of how you can support her and still be a friend through this situation.
2007-03-28 11:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by PrettiGrl91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to these ppl they ate so harsh, now a days having a baby at 15 is not that much of a big deal. If your friend wants to have the baby just support her, if you tell her to give it up for adoption or have an abortion she will hate you trust me, i was 15 when i first got pregnant and i wish i had twins just treat her normally and support her, trust me i bet she needs a friend right now
2007-03-28 15:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!! I am 15 years old and pregnant but definitely not TWINS!!! He must of hit her just right but anyway just be there for her if she needs help and try to do everything she asks and if you can't she will understand. Another thing is if she is having a hard time just try to comfort her its the best thing you can do.
2007-03-28 11:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to place those babies up for adoption and have the sperm-donor hauled into court on rape charges.
There is no way in hell that she'll be able to raise two kids on her own, without a decent education or health insurance...or a real, caring husband.
Sound harsh?
Think about the life those twins will have with such a young mom.
It won't be a good life.
2007-03-28 11:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by docscholl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First just make sure to be there for her. She will need you a LOT...especially if the "boyfriend" dumps her (that is pretty likely considering she is only 15.)
If possible try to convince her to place the babies up for adoption. It would be better for HER and the babies.
If she intends to keep the babies...MAKE SURE...she goes after the "boyfriend" for financial support. If he is as young as she is, or even in the age "ballpark", I rather doubt he will be in any position to help her financially.
2007-03-28 10:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Provide support for her and be a good friend. Offer to help her with the kids. Bring her homework over to her when she's out of school.
2007-03-28 14:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her when she needs to talk, put up with her mood swings, and just try to understand that whats shes going through is a lot to deal with at any age. maybe you could go to her doctor appointments with her, and give her all the support she needs. help her think of baby names, or anything else.
2007-03-28 10:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is ur choice, u could be very close with her and her babies... or u could be the friend that didnt stick around... But at 15, i think u should NOT follow in ur friends foot steps.
2007-03-28 10:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by lil_mrs_bridgett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as considerate and understanding as you can possibly be. That is alot to deal with at 15.
2007-03-28 10:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋