theres this girl who i've been friends with for a while. i'm kinda tired of her though, just cuse she's starting to be mean to me, and she is gonna become gothic which really isn't my kinda thing. but i dont know how to tell her i dont want to be friends nymore, cuse she has trusted me and told me all of her secrets and expects me to do the same. what should i do?
2007-03-28 10:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by JoJo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just gradually move farther and farther away from her.. only talk to her when she comes up to you..when(and if) you talk to her just talk about school or a sort team dont get personally.... kinda give herthe vibe that u dont like this whole gothic thing..... take my advice move farther and farther away from her.. slowlyy
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-28 10:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. One day the girl I was friends with went nuts on me as mom was driving her home. I talked to her on the phone once or twice after that but we never saw each other again. A year later she called and we resolved our differences, but I still haven't seen her since; she turned gothic and lived her life; I lived mine and it just worked out for the best that way. I hope I helped.
2007-03-28 10:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Terabell_Samantha_Ursula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's treating you bad nip it in the butt, let her know you don't appreciate her behavior and will not tolerate it. If she's going to be Gothic and you will not be does that mean that she is going to continue changing with you...then it's self explanatory that you both are growing in different directions. Although aside from her mistreating you her being Gothic shouldn't determine your friendship. So let her know it's not the Gothic it's her treatment of you. Stand up for yourself...
2007-03-28 10:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her straight up why do you want to be gothic be yourself,i like who you are better and if you change i wont recognize you anymore so be who you are.oh yeah tell her you dont like gothic when she tells you all the time and keep repeating it to her when she tries to say and talk about it.but if she does not listen just ignore her
2007-03-28 10:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell her that you no longer want to be friends with her is going to hurt her. What you should do is slowly move away from her, that way there is a smaller possibility of your so-called friend getting hurt.
2007-03-28 10:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by jumba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont, just slowly start talking to her less and less and dont tell her your secrets anymore she will finally get that you guys are getting distant and she is gonna start looking for other friends that have more in common. Thats how i did it and it worked!
2007-03-28 10:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by nonick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to avoid confrontation over it.. you should slowly stay away from her. She'll get the hint
2007-03-28 10:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by anonyn55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not calling and saying you are busy or need time alone.They will get the hint. Be consistant
2007-03-28 10:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by vgigaijin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply don´t meet her as often as you did, do things with other people, but never tell her, that you don´t want to be her friend anymore, because this really, deeply hurts her!
2007-03-28 10:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by sosunny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just gradually stop seeing her and cut all phone conversations short. If she asks you , just say you're very busy these days.
2007-03-28 10:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋