Ok met this way cool girl and want to hookup/hangout but dont want anything serious for while.... possible???

Question

Ok so last Sat i met this girl at a club through a friend of mine. We started dancing and really hit it off just fine.

Backforund info>>> I broke it off with my X girlfriend about 3-4 months ago and have been trying to meet new people. Allthough i want to go out with new girls i dont want to advance to any kinda of "serious" relationship. I want to keep things as low key as possible. I want to be single right now.
Back to the story>>>So we ended up getting a few drinks and grinded alittle more one the dance floor. Her friend approached me and told me she totally digged me and thought i was hot/cute... I ended up going back to her place and making out all night with her and hooked up, kinda... ( we never had sex, nor did i bust a nut)
Allthough i was naked and she was in her underwear.
She told me she wanted to wait ( im geussing she meant sex) ... I totally dig this girl and want to spend more time with her...can i not go to a serioud relationship but still hang out???

Answer 1

It is more than possible if you are truthful with her. For example, would you be willing to let her read your question? Because as a girl who has been in that situation before, if the guy had been straight with me as you have been in your answer, game on.....at that point in my life. If you really "dig" her and want to spend more time with her....let her know that you'd like to do that, but that you also want the benefits right away, just not a serious relationship. Let her make the decision from there. If you can both be honest, it could be fun, it could be the shaky beginning to a great friendship, it could be the very beginning to.........? Please keep in mind, however, that she may be going thru some stuff too, and is taking what she can get from you just to feel loved and important to someone. Big mistake there............because she may agree with everything, not wanting to be too vulnerable and tell you what she really wants, for fear that you will straight up wave goodbye and go on with your quest. I feel that by her taking you all that way and saying she wanted to wait, she may have realized that she was getting in over her head before knowing what she needs to know from you, let alone what she needs for herself.