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hi im just over 2 month pregnant and my babys dad dont know but i have decided to keep my baby, but some of my friends have fell out with me because of it! and so have 2 of my close cousions(dont know why, its not them having a baby in 7 month!). my question is how could i tell my bf with out it turning into a massive row? because he has a pretty short fuse!!!

2007-03-28 09:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by bo-boop-de-doop! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

also im under 16 and my parents dont know yet so when they find out is it posable,for parents to force you to have an abortion?

2007-03-28 10:00:54 · update #1

16 answers

no it is not possible for your parents to force you into anything and dont let them as its you who has to live with it the rest of your life not them and abortions can cause prolems in the future in trying to have more children.

the ones who know, ask them to wait outside the room while you tell your bf, just incase he does fly off the handle, but he may surprise you.

you need to tell your parents right away also, i fell pregnant 2 years ago when i was 20 and never told my parents. they found out when a hospital appointment got posted through the door and my mum opened it by mistake, so they reacted really badly and kicked me out. i ended up having a miscarriage. its not worth it, believe me.

im now 22, living with my new boyfriend, 21 weeks pregnant and expecting our first baby august 7th. its a blessing for you, and although your young, loads of people manage it. the ones who have fell out with you are the only ones missing out, youve lost nothing.

good luck! xxx

2007-03-28 21:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0 0

I'm not sure what to tell you as far as telling your boyfriend, you ultimately have to decide what's the best way to tell him, but know that he will be more upset the longer you wait. As far as your parents being able to force you to have an abortion, the answer is NO absolutely not. Even if they took you to the clinic and made you fill out all the papers, at some point you will be alone with the nurse or doctor and you can tell them that isn't what you want and no one can force you to do that. Good luck and God Bless!

2007-03-28 17:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by TGill 1 · 0 0

Well, you decided that you're keeping your baby no matter what so you can tell your boyfriend that you're expecting and whatever his reaction is gonna be it doesn't matter anyway cause you already made your decision. About friends never mind. They're not real friends if they're not there for you when you really need them. I'm sure you'll make new ones. Your baby is more important than anyone else.
Good luck &take care of both you now!

2007-03-28 16:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This isn't good girl. I had a bf with a short fuse and it's not a good thing. All you can do is stand up for yourself and say your keeping the baby. If he is really bad I would tell him in front of someone so he won't hit you in the tummy to make you lose it. Good luck hun and I hope it goes okay.

2007-03-28 16:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Brie 2 · 1 0

Tell him that you have thought about it and you have decided to keep the baby. Tell him you feel that it is what is right.

Don't do it with just the two of you there have someone there that will be able to give you a ride somewhere else if he starts to get nasty.

You don't need his attitude if you have made up your mind then thats that! Everyone else can either get used to the idea and support you or go **** off!

2007-03-28 16:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 2 · 0 0

It takes two to make a baby he can't force you to get rid of it make sure you do it in a public place if you think he may be dangerous. Take him out to dinner or something he is less likely to lose it with others around. Don't worry about everyone else it will only stress you they will come around. Good luck I hope everything goes well.

2007-03-28 16:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by mominla 3 · 0 0

Be blunt and honest. Tell him you want to keep the baby and why. If he pitches a hissy fit remind him that it takes two to make a baby, he made his bed and now he needs to lie in it. And for safety reasons I would suggest going somewhere public, maybe out to dinner somewhere with lots of people around. Good luck and Congrats!

2007-03-28 17:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by happily_married_biotch 2 · 0 0

Just be honest with him tell him its a baby growing inside of you and you cannot and will not have an abortion.
I suggest if your b/friend does come round he seeks anger management before you let him near the baby.
Your child comes first...always.

Good luck to u....to him,his loss

2007-03-28 16:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hi, congratulations! firstly,dont worry about your friends,if they were true friends they would be happy for you no matter what.Theres not a lot you can do about your cousins though but im sure they'll come round! as for your boyfriend,tell him with your mum or his mum around that way he wont go mad, remind him it takes 2 to make a baby! good luck!!

2007-03-28 16:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just be blunt. My husband always tells me men prefer it if you don't beat around the bush. It will help you get through it faster, too. Why prolong your agony? If He blows up, let him, it's a pretty big bomb you're dropping! Then give him a chance to calm down. He may come around faster than you think!

2007-03-28 16:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kat H 6 · 1 0

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