My 20 year old aunt is going to get proposed to on her boyfriends birthday. But, im afraid that shes going to be to buisy to pay any attention to me . I love her and all but, just sometimes well, most of the time she doesn't pay attention to me anyways. What should i do to get her attention?
2007-03-28 09:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by April b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just be honest and tell her you miss spending time with her. She is going to need your support, you should be happy for her! Trust me, she will find time for you...just let her know its starting to get to you. She will understand
2007-03-28 09:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should give you some attention, but she doesn't need to be spending every spare second she has with you. You need to realize she has a life of her own and you should have a life of your own too. Your Aunt is going to be proposed to, and you want her to pay attention to you???? Sounds a little selfish to me. This will be an important time in your Aunt's life and you need to let her enjoy it. You just need to be there for her when she needs you. As well, I am sure she is there when you really need her.
2007-03-28 16:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mom Of 2 Princesses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you and your aunt have your 'special' times together but when she's going to be proposed to - it's no longer about YOU! Let her be happy and move on!
Shame on you for being so inconciderate of others!
2007-03-28 17:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, was her boyfriend going ot propose, or were you going to? It sem as thoug she ought ot pay attention to him on his birthday, especially if he's proposing to her.
2007-03-28 16:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're aunt is 20. She needs to slow her roll and enjoy her 20's. She's making a mistake... trust me.
Get used to these kind of changes. They're going to keep happening.
2007-03-28 16:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholas R 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Tell her interesting stuff, no boring sheet, something that she can relate to....
2007-03-28 16:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if she loves you she will
2007-03-28 21:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by 789512 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋