i cant distinguish if it's directed towards my husband , my sister or towards life in general. and it's affecting how i treat other people around me..... does life ever get smooth sailing or not???!!!!
2007-03-28 09:15:20 · 11 answers · asked by newmom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i read all the advice here but still dont know how to deal with my issues. the details of my situation in brief are: over a year ago my younger sister got married and her husband, without any particular reason is not too fond of me and my husband. We didnt let that get in the way of all the celebrations and in our love for my sister... however my sister has told me off in a very rude manner that i have disrespected her ( i have no idea when i did that) and she doesnt even explain why she feels that way. so she stopped being in touch with me. since we exchanged some heated words i am still mad at her and i hurt like anything from inside.. it has taken me a year and 2 months to not let this whole topic bother me. but i still hurt.
Issue about my husband is quite complicated. i love him more than anyone in the world but sometimes i wish he would do certain things differently. OH HELL!! this is hard to write. i wish my friends werent too busy with their lives and i could talk to them!
2007-03-28 09:44:56 · update #1
i have a sister whom dose not "like"me for what ever reason i finally figured it was because i was born. i don't know i just had to let it go and not hurt me anymore. i always wanted a sister to be close to and i wished it was diffrent maybe there is someone whom you will bond with as you would your sister and it may help. i could just imagine the pain because i have felt the same pain but don't let it affect how you treat others it isn't their fault
2007-03-28 10:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably get harder before it gets easier, and I'm afraid your anger issues will affect every aspect of your life. This sounds so cliche, but you really do need to talk to an outside person and determine why you are feeling this way. You may already know why, but someone else can help you work through it, come to terms, and make your life better. Anger and depression go hand in hand, so you can't really get rid of one without getting rid of the other, and yes, life does get better, but life is not always "smooth sailing". There will always be tough things to go through. It's what makes us stronger, and more capable of dealing with the next tough thing that will come along.
2007-03-28 16:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depression is just Anger without Enthusiasm.
Things do go back to the norm though, overtime, even if it takes years to get to.
Although I do not know your situation, things will go back to normal if you let it, i.e., forget whatever happened, if you can't forget, just don't let it bother you as much and try not to think about whatever situation it be.
Any moment in life, no matter how bad it may seem, things CAN always get better, if you let it. But I'm only 21... what do I know?
2007-03-28 16:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ID says new mom. I wonder if perhaps your suffering from depression.
Being angry is normal when we get hurt or tired of being taken for granted. Perhaps even mistreated.
I suggest you talk things over with those your mad at. As it is hard to deal with life in general as a new mom. Never mind adult problems piled on top of it all.
Take care. Let me know how you are.
2007-03-28 16:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way...excluding the sister. But it seem to not be getting better. I wish I had some good advice but right now I have none because i'm depress as well.
Just part of being a women....we deal with alot of ****!
2007-03-28 16:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Always Camera Ready 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your name is newmom, how new of a mom, could it be hormonal? try to express your angry feelings in tactful ways, even explaining that you don't get why you feel angry but you do, having them understand may be able to get them to help ease things out for you for a bit of time until you are feeling 100% again...if this lasts very long, go see your doctor.
2007-03-28 16:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey this is not you. It's the hormones. New moms are not normal. You need to relax and know that it will pass. Yes this is only temporary.
2007-03-28 23:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband and sister had a thang huh? divorce him and forgive your sister.
2007-03-28 16:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss these feelings with Hubby and
those close to you so you don't accidentally hurt their feelings.
2007-03-28 16:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should discus your feelings with your doc. He can give you something to help. There's no shame in seeking help.
2007-03-28 16:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋