ttc again?? please answer?

Question

ok me and my fiance have been trying for a month to get pregnant. and i was wondering other than saying take a test what do you think. for the last 3 weeks been feeeling really sick, got sick 2 days ago but only 3 times in a day which is pretty weird for flu considering usually i throw up every 15 minutes. i got a period but it was only 3 days and irregular. not light light but i also heard you can mistaken your period and implantation bleeding feeling really bloated and i cant even sip 10 sips of coffee without having the urge to throw up. every second day me and my fiance have been ttc. im tired more than usual and been starting to get headaches? could i be pregnant again. sorry ive been asking so much of these questions not many people answerr

we are getting married officially this summer

and plus why do people have to be married to show their love and have a family. me and my fiance dont believe you have to be married to show you are together until recently we were not planning on getting married. its just a piece of paper stating you are husband and wife

oh and we want our children close together roughly 2 years apart

the last time i was pregnant i found out when i was 11 weeks. i was anemic so i was very irregular but now that i have my son im regular and back on track

thankyou julie on your commen about the marriage comment. i dont understand it either why people cant just answer the quesion if people wanted me to be technical under winnipeg mb i would already be considered a wife to him considering how long i lived with him. anyways thankyou so much for making that statment

because people didnt ask you about marriage advice. i dont care how big i am for my wedding and that wasnt apart of the question either. if i cared about how big i was meand my fiance wouldnt be trying

Answer 1

You could be, but if you have been before and know the symptoms then you might just be psych'ing yourself out. you say, 'could i be pregnant again?' if you've been through this once before, then you really should get a test and check. alot of women do that. if they want to get pregnant, they tend to start feeling symptoms no matter what. the best thing for you to do is take a test. get one of the first response tests if you really want. those can detect a really small amount of the hormone.

Don't listen to anyone saying you guys should wait. And anyone else who answers this question, should read the actual question and answer it for what it is, not give their snotty opinion as a response. I don't remember reading that she was asking for anyone's opinion on her marital status.

I'm also trying to conceive, i'm starting birth control for 6 months right now to regulate my periods, and then possibly gonna start a chlomid cycle to see if that helps. i understand how you feel wanting it so much you kinda convince yourself. but a test is really the only way to be sure.

Answer 2

I hate to say this, but what is the rush ?Why can't you wait until you two get married to further this? Once you get out of the stress of marriage, why not THEN focus on a family?

You could be pregnant, but you could have stress or even severe PMS. Talk to your doctor.

Why make a big deal out of it? I had a kid before getting married and it's going to be TOUGH to plan a wedding AND watch a kid AND lose weight. Get a solid relationship FIRST before adding kids to the mix.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are to me. Here's what I suggest. Go through your fridge. Smell everything in there. If anything you usually like makes you sick, you're there! I knew I was pregnant with my first when Turkey sickened me. With #2 it was cheese. 2 of my favorite foods! Also, women you know may ask you if you are pregnant. That happened to me a bunch w/ #1