Is it fair I'm getting sent to boarding school for making out --and a little farther?

Question

My Dad and Mom had a business collegue over, and he brought his wife and two kids. The oldest son was a year older than me and majorly hot... So I flirted and he flirted back.. took him into my room and into the closet and we started to make
out.. We went a little too far and he pulled off my shirt and then my Mom was looking for me and she found me like this.. I can't believe I did that.... And now She's trying to figure out how to punish me, what would you do? Do you think this is a serious offence my parents are thinking of sending me to boarding school! I'm really worried. Anything that could take the place of that?

Ok... Sure maybe you have a point.. But my friends have made out with their boyfriends at school and they get away with it.. And no I didn't know him, but I had seen him, from a distance... And I'm 16, so why shouldn't I be able to make out.. I guess I just shouldn't have done it in my parents house.. But this was the last straw, this isn't the first incidient, the first one at my house but its happened before at school and I've been caught..

And by the way it wasn't competely my fault.. He was a year older than me and he didn't resist it and he pulled my shirt off.

Answer 1

You embarrassed yourself in front of his business colleague and you made your family look bad. It's pretty serious. You should have more respect for your Father and should have got the guy's number and saw him at a later time. If you're doing something so "dangerous" when people are home, then you are looking for attention. Maybe your parents don't spend enough time with you? Write your parents a letter and tell them that you thought about it and you realize that what you did was very disrespectful. Tell them that you're very sorry and you just wish they would spend more time with you, instead of being so focused on work. Ask if you can do more things together as a family. And tell them it will never happen again. I promise if you do this, their hearts will melt and they won't send you away. But you have to mean it - and spend more time with them. Everyone wins. Good luck.

Answer 2

I would say it all depends on how old you are?
I have a 7 year old daughter, if she did when she was say as young as 10-13 I would ground her for awhile.
But if she was 14-18 it's not a big enough offense to be sent to boarding school.
Either way I would have a talk with her about what she did and ask her why it happend and I would listen to what she had to say.
I would sit down with your parents and let them know your sorry it happened. You know it shouldn't of but you don't feel that boarding school is the right punishment. And maybe you guys sitting down talking about it you can all come to a agreement on a good punishment that isn't so harsh.

What are the other parents doing to their son for punishment? I'm sure they aren't sending him to boarding school for crying out loud.

I think if your parents do the boarding school that is just a little to harsh. I'm sorry I am a parent and I wouldn't result to boarding school.

Answer 3

You don't want to hear this.
Since you admit that this is NOT your first offense, obviously your parents feel, with some justification, that boarding school will provide the discipline and setting for you to learn some self-control and self respect. It would appear that lesser punishments have had no effect. You and some others may feel that it is too harsh a punishment, but in the end, it is their decision.
Making out at school and at home when your parents are there shows incredibly poor taste and bad judgement.
You are well on your way to being a ****. You seem to be totally clueless about how serious this is, especially from a parent's point of view. No parent wants to see their little girl turning into a tramp! Certainly, at 16, you are sort of old enough to "make out", but, please!, use a little discretion and selectivity, for Pete's sake!
Oh, yeah, quit trying to shift the responsibility over to the boy. You are the one who took him up to your room, into the closet and gave him every indication that you were willing to do what you did. All he did was follow your lead. Yes, he has a certain share of the responsibility, but that is not your problem and it does not negate your culpability in any way.

Answer 4

Yeah, I'd say it is a pretty serious offense. If you were my daughter that would just about be the worst offense you could commit.

I would never send my daughter to boarding school, though. It is my job to raise her and teach her how to be a lady.

I'd probably make you apologize to the kid's parents and let them in on what you were doing. Not that you would ever have been allowed alone with a boy to begin with.

Thinking that someone your age is a little too old for a switching...I'd probably take away all priveleges for an insanely long amount of time.

Answer 5

I don't think I'd send you to boarding school. What you did was wrong and I'd want you at home for two reasons: one, you cannot be trusted even with your parents in the house, and two how would I be able to punish you if you weren't there?

Keep your clothes on for God's sake. You didn't say to tried to stop him so you're just a guilty.

Answer 6

Wow thats intense, but I still remember those days!!

Your hormones are given everybody a hard time eh?
Oh well kids do that kinda stuff, but when my daughter starts with all that I might have a different view!!
I don't think a little make-out session is worth sending you away even if you are making a lot of poor judgment calls these days!!
Hang in there and be sure to apologize to the P-units for any embarrassment that may have resulted that day♥

Answer 7

Um, that's a little unfair. well, it's depending how old u are. Ages 12-14, maybe a strong talk and a month of grounding. 15-17, I would say maybe nothing. Cuz they're old enough. Boarding school is maybe, I almost killed the neibor. LOL! I bet they're just saying that to scare you. Don't worry. Your parents can't be THAT harsh! And plus, it was worth it since the guy WAS CUTE! LOL! Tell me how this stuff goes.

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Answer 8

You're actually lucky for getting sent to boarding school as a form of punishment. How many people who live in inner city neighbourhoods say that they got sent to a boarding school with tuition paid in full as a punishment. If I were your parents I would hand you a bill after you were done boarding school.

Answer 9

Send you to boarding school. Yes it's fair for you parents to send you to boarding school for defying their rules.

Answer 10

Maybe the whole boarding school is a bit far in my opinion, but serisously. You just met the guy, and you start making out with him! Whether he was hot or not, could have at least got to know him a little better! Your shirt could have stayed on, too. Honestly, you could have done it somewhere else, not when your parents are home as well as his! Hope this helps!

God Bless!