Ok this is really embarassing but I have to ask. Is everyone's clitoris roughly the same in size and location? Mine is high and really small. Is this normal? It makes it really difficult for me to orgasm when having sex. I've heard others say that it is all about position and to "be on top", well that doesn't work for me. Are there any other positions to try? I would LOVE to orgasm during intercourse.
2007-03-28 08:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by SaMaGa 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, I hope a guy answering this doesn't make you any more embarassed. You shouldn't be anyhow, all of our wive, mothers, sisters and daughters have clitorises and any guy who's worth a damn in the sac knows all about them. I'm not sure how detailed I can get in this place but whats the worst that can happen.
First, everyones body is different with their parts in different locations. There is NO normal, don't get hung up on wanting your stuff to be just like everyone elses. My girlfriend has a major problem with that, thinking her labia should look just like adult movie stars.
Second, orgasm through intercourse is fairly rare without a helping hand or "back massager". It is possible but that would usually be a G-spot orgasm. On top is the best way to get stimulation on your clit, but it helps to put your legs straight back...hmm how to explain this... start out regular (squatting I guess) and shift your legs back so you are laying flat, then slide back a bit, you'll feel it if you get it right.
If this fails, buy a helping battery powered "friend" online, go for something traditional for your first toy. Please don't be embarassed, everyone in the world are pleasure seeking hedonists.
2007-03-28 09:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by mike h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are very close in position, but they are all different sizes and shapes.
I have seen very small to about 1.5 inches when excited.
2007-03-28 08:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋