i have this girl i like named ashley we are really good friends we allways talk hang out everything.she kinda knows how i feel but im not certain so yea she is white and a cheerleader if that gives you ne help by the way im white to so yea but just to give u more info no race issue. she allways talks about finding the right guy. i should be that guy im a gentleman i have a job even though we aint done with school we can still be together so pleez help me find the right words to say
2007-03-28 08:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by wat_it_is_937 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
From the weirdly tangential way you write, this may be an uphill battle. Since race was not an issue, why did you mention it? What information does that give us?
Attraction is a complex phenomena. She may be saying she is not attracted to you. You will have a difficult time changing that, if it is true. Try being a friend. Have fun with her and quit trying to "say the right things" to manipulate her. Be you. Only by being you will she be able to see if she likes the "real" you.
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2007-03-28 08:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am a girl so I think I know what a girl might think. Always be yourself. Always be honest and sincere. Tell her how much her friendship means to you, but that you feel like you would like to try and be more than friends. Tell her you think she is beautiful inside and out. Tell her you think she is caring and sweet. Tell her that with all the things you have in common that you think you would be a good couple. Ask her out on a date and see what happens!
2007-03-28 16:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly47112 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ashley could i tell you something and when I'm finished you can tell me the honest truth and no matter what it is ill still be your friend and i hope you will still be mine ,i have all these feeling for you i think on you when i go to bed at night and your still in my mind in the morning i cant wait to see you at school etc , and i was wondering do you have any kind of feeling for me like that ,
2007-03-28 15:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by paula luvs elvis 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself. You said she's your friend and kinda knows how you feel. Just continue being there for her, she'll see if you are the "right" guy or not. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-28 16:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to the movies, but dont push her to the back, follow her. Then see how it moves on from there, wait for the right time, and ask her how she feels about you.
2007-03-28 15:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sabre 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Ask her out to a movie or to lunch and then ask her to be your girlfriend. Whatever you say to her just relax.
2007-03-28 15:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Robert G. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not so much your words that are wrong, as your lack of punctuation.
2007-03-28 15:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋