im kinda been depressed lately... i used to real good looking wen i waz 11 and 12 and girls especially my cuzins wud say i was hot and cute and handsome and stuff... but i think i lost it... they say im kinda ok now... in fact a lot of girls thought i was cute and hot and now most of them say ok... im 14 1/2 now but wut can i do?
i think maybe its my hair or something? i had long hair for the entire time im 13!! i dunno plz help!!! i dunno wut do i feel like killing myself!!!
i have great personality and stuff but the girl i like say im ok
2007-03-28 08:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
also i have another question wit pics of me but i don have much comfort in girls who r prolly nerds or something telling me i look hot
2007-03-28 08:43:08 · update #1
they say im attractive but i wonder wut happened to my hotness and cuteness it just went away somehow wen i grow older!!!
also u think im a girl?? cuz im a boy and NOT A GAY
2007-03-28 08:47:25 · update #2
also check out my other question if u wanan see how i look yes ive been called cute but only by 2 or 3 girls but not the one i like i dunno how to appeal to her cuz she likes my personality and stuff but she likes some1 else
2007-03-28 08:53:52 · update #3
im not gonna kill myself i just feel bad
2007-03-28 09:29:34 · update #4
im depressed too...im 13 and i answered that question saying ur hot...but im not a nerd. when im at school boys are all over me...it gets pretty annoying. everyone at my school is shallow and only care about looks. which is kinda why i hate my life. but its not just life.....something in the brain doesnt produce enough serotin(i think thats spelled right). if u want some advice on how to feel happier email me. frombri2u@yahoo.com
2007-03-28 10:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Piper(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey I am sure that you are hot. I know that I have never seen you before and dont have a clue what you might look like but 9 times out of 10 people who are not very cute no that they are ugly. And now days if a girl is telling you that you are ok it probably means that you are cute. Sounds to me like you are just at that age where you are second guessing yourself. Guess what there is always somebody out there that thinks you are hot and forget about killing yourself if you do that then you really will be hot in hell that is. Good Luck
2007-03-28 15:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by spold_qt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself.
Girls don't want anything to do with dead guys!
What can you do? Grow your hair out, get older, that's what. You aren't even half way through high school, and you are far from grown up yet. You may be going through a geeky looking stage in your growth, but in five years you might be married to a super hot girl who won't say no to you.
2007-03-28 15:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think about killing yourself over something you'll probably grow out of in the next couple of years? Grow your hair back out if that makes you feel better. Someday soon (and this I promise) you will meet a girl who thinks you're the hottest guy she's ever met and you'll wonder why you ever felt this way. Give it some time, dude!
2007-03-28 15:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your friends judge you and stop asking them for their opinion. It makes you look weak and insecure. Get a new hairstyle and buy some new cute clothes and start saying how "GREAT" you feel. Show confidence and if they still say "well, you're just OK" - then say "that's what you think, i had 2 guys flirt with me today and they thought i was hot". If you think you're hot - then you will be. Understand?
2007-03-28 15:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not what others think about you that is important. It is how you feel about yourself. If you are feeling so low you feel like hurting yourself you should talk to your parents or someone.
If you had long hair before and you liked yourself better, grow your hair long again, but remember this it is not the hair who makes us who we are, it is who we are inside. I am sure you have a great personality.
Good Luck to you.
2007-03-28 15:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre retarded!! feel like killing yourself because you lost your "hotness" girls your age have no idea what hot even is.. and theres someone out there for everyone.. you shouldnt care what people think of you in the first place..
2007-03-28 16:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i agree with the person above me
2007-03-28 16:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋