She is a strong person, finished college, no kids, living on her own since 19. And she had to make a choice between 2 men. One she's been living with for over a year, but he's a homebody, very boring, doesn’t like doing anything (Literally), and is more like her roommate. And now she’s sorta involved with a man of whom she’s known for 3-4 years. Of those years he's been tryin to be with her, but she played hard to get to make sure he was real, his feelings for her never changed and wants to prove that he loves her, saying he will do anything for her. Even wants to marry her and have a family (Which is her dream and he wants to make it come true). He treats her with respect and like a Queen when they spend time together and says she’s never been happier with another man. He makes her feel good, like a woman. Only flaw about him is he has 2 kids (One was before she knew him) by different women who seem to want to make his life miserable even though they have their own men and they messed up their chance with him and did him wrong. They even falsely accuse him and he's sent off to jail. She doesn’t want any Baby Mamma drama in her life. He’s a good, hard working man; he just made mistakes with them. She’s not feeling the "Step-mom" role before she gave birth to her own. But yet, she prays for guidance and strength. Something inside her is saying give him a chance. But every time she thinks about sharing him with 2 other females, she back down and gets scared. She does care about him more than the man she lives with, but she doesn’t want to deal with his kids mothers AT ALL. She wouldn’t treat his kids wrong if she were to be with him. What advice would you give her? Who would you rather she be with?
2007-03-28 08:37:35 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Drop the homebody and find somebody else. The man with too many women is trouble. If he is the father of her child, she has to work it out with him, his kids, and his women. She knew what she was getting into.
If the kid isn't his, find another man. There are so many men to get to know.
2007-04-05 07:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
take it from a girl's point of view, every girl wants to be happy and live the American dreamnd of course that includes marriage and for that to happen there needs to be love. its very obvious that your sis is very much in love with him and so is he, at the end of the day it's him and your sister in a relationship or marriage not her and everybody else, if he makes her happy and treats her right, then what is there for her to be scared of. As for the stepmom part, he may have made mistakes in life previously, but that's the past and i doubt that he would try to hurt your sister if he considers her feelings for him. Also she would own and be with a man that the previous baby mamas want, and this shows how good he was to them and how they wish HE was with them instead of your sis.
2007-04-05 04:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Christelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost seems to me that "she" seems to be settling with either choice. From what you wrote, it sounds like the one she's living with is more convenience than anything else, and the other option though better than the first still isn't the one she would choose to spend the rest of her life with. It almost sounds like she's being forced to pick one slice of a pie or another, rather than looking for a different, bigger pie altogether. I don't hear an incredible passion for either choice so I would advise my sister, cousin, or friend to go with neither, and get what she really wants.
2007-04-04 11:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nick A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if he treats her with respect, they enjoy each others company, and they have strong feeling for each other then go for it. As for the mother of the children, let him deal with it, He will appreciate you more if you don't get in the middle. Support him in everything, and just be there for him and the children. Treat them as you would like to be treated and he will love you even more. And keep moving on with your life don't let the other women ruin any part of your relationship.
2007-04-04 09:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has ben playing hard to get for 3-4 years she is not that intrested in him. If I had a woman playing hard to get after 6 months I would give up I wouldn't waste my time on her. I don't know any guy that would chase a girl for that long which makes me suspicious of him.
If she can't decide which one she wants the truth is she doesn't want either one.
2007-03-28 08:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that for her continued sanity and happiness, you answered the question right here:
''she doesn’t want to deal with his kids mothers AT ALL. ''
2007-03-28 08:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should be with the man that makes her happy...... as far as the stepmoms r concern let them eat cake. Take the package deal and be happy.
2007-03-28 08:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by pokvet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋