She also told me she loves me more now than ever. And you all thought she was going to dump for her young lover.
Look, I understand that our situation is very different. But it does work for some couples that are open minded.
2007-03-28 08:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she wants to try something new! Keep your mind open, i mean, hey, I would do that for my hubby too!
2007-03-28 08:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by serestmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK call me crazy anyone that wants to but I am an older woman and I think something like this can spice up a marriage.Your life style is your buisness. I think that as long as you are both mature enough to handle this then you are a great couple. I divorced my husband for cheating but I would have taken him to a strip club for a special occasion if he had chose this. He did not. It could have been a marriage saver not a marriage breaker.
Have a great dinner and whatever you do later.
2007-03-28 15:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand the middle part of it but all i know is your wife is taking you out and as well as to the strip club. what's wrong with that!? i have never been or seen strip club and i actually ask my hubby to take me there so i know what a strip club is like! your wife is very open minded and you're a very lucky man! just enjoy and have fun! make sure you take the 'right' lady home - i mean your wife! ^_^
2007-03-28 16:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's taking you out and then taking you to a strip club. Is it me or is she calling all the shots and your just the obedient husband. There is always a reason for being nice, just be sure she's doing it for the right reasons. I'd be a little leery of her intentions.
2007-03-28 15:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have read a bit about it and in the short term it is yes but not for long term. She is stringing you and using your money and home for all her deeds.
Its going to be sad and a lonely pathway for you very soon and watch the men who also sleep with her, they will have little or no respect for her dirty deeds. Men always want a lady and not a tramp. I can see you are not sure, but you are only convinciing yourself by posting these questions for your satisfaction and company. Coz you ultimately want a normal life.
2007-03-29 04:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your dinner & have a good time @ the strip club. Besure to get her something really nice for a night like that.
2007-03-28 15:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "open minded" is another word for being weak and willing to settle for less than you are worth. Tell her to take her night out, her young lover, and all her crap and stick it!! Go find someone that feels you are all she needs....That you are the Only person in the room.
2007-03-28 15:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wife is taking you out to dinner and a strip club????
If you tell me she is going to sleep with you after I'll kill you.
If you tell me she is going to sleep with you and the stripper after I'll kill myself!
2007-03-28 15:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It works for as long as you are getting your happy endings from your wife.
2007-03-28 15:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
More power to you and your bride smiley44 she is lucky to have a understanding and as loving of a husband as you're. have fun on your date.
2007-03-28 15:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋