How do I get reid of a man that makes me unhappy? What do I do?

Question

I have been with him for almost a year and it has been hard. He is not a very easy man to get along with. I am tired of fighting. I need help.....

Answer 1

Say you're sick of fighting and think it's time to just not be together. If you live together, it's a little bit more difficult, if not, then all it would take are some words. If it's not working out, it's just not working out, what can you do? Better now than later.

Answer 2

If you're tired of fighting, then don't fight. Maybe you should both take a break for a couple of days. go on a vacation or visit some family and if you two start fighting again after you return, then leave. Sit him down and explain your reasons for dropping the relationship. If he tries to start a fight, don't yell back. Just sit quietly and let him calm down. Then, pick up where you left off. By the time you're finished explaining, he'll be worn out and you'll be free.

Answer 3

You don't say you're living with him or not...regardless, you need to shed this person from your life if you are unhappy - PERIOD. -So you need to find a way...If you fight as much as you indicate, I think I would write him a brief letter and move out when he's gone, completely...Some say its a cowardly way? -And a number of experienced women such as myself, will tell you it is a SAFE way if you harbor any fear/consider for escalating fighting, to end/leave this relationship.

Life is too short to be so unhappy...It sounds like he is difficult even when you AREN'T fighting...perhaps you jumped into this relationship with both feet and now are standing back and seeing it for real...If that is the case, you need to leave soon...and move on.

Hard at first, easier with each passing day...If he is the begging type, you simply need to be firm and explain that you don't feel compatible with him and you're doing him a favor (might work!)

Goodluck dear, above all: BE SAFE.

Grace

Answer 4

You give yourself a pep talk, tell yourself that you deserve to be happy, and tell him, straightforward, that you are no longer interested in continuing this relationship. He'll most likely want to know why you're breaking up with him, so have some answers ready for him. It's understandable that he will be very upset and probably confused, since you've been together for a year. But stay strong and don't back down. He may try to talk you out of it, but say no, you've already made up your mind and it's over. I wish you luck with this - it's never easy to break someone's heart.

Answer 5

I am actually in this situation myself, my bf of almost 2 yrs is making me very unhappy everyday, but I love him and always will. He is just selfish and is controlling, this is why I haven't been able to get away. Its not always as easy as saying, we're breaking up, bye! Just be careful, we fought almost everyday and now I am scared. If you are unhappy tell him and see if it is worth sticking around for or not.

Answer 6

You need to be honest with him and tell him that you need some space to sort out your feelings and thoughts. I think a year is a long time enough for you to know that this is not the kind of relationship you want to be in. Everyone has their arguements and stress but, if your not happy then you need to find a way to restore your inner self.

Best of luck********

Answer 7

You should sit down and tell him that things with you and him arent working and that you spend more time fighting than talking and be able to end it in a plesant manner.

Answer 8

If you're not happy with this guy in your life, then leave or ask him to leave. There's more to life than fighting, so move on.

Answer 9

Time to be up front with him. Tell him how he makes you feel.
After all life is too short to be unhappy esp. when you don't have to be.

Answer 10

Mix some of the tainted dog food into his dinner.