how do you find the right guy ?

Answer 1

inside you....really if you know your needs.....you'll understand who has what you need , but also if you know your capabilities and preferences then you also will know if you fulfill his needs , its a matter of talking and knowing people , having a network of friends in social circles that you feel comfortable in , but poetically saying it ...is when someone makes you fel in peace with yourself and people , nobody really deserves your tears , but if he do...he will try to never ever make you cry ..........

Answer 2

The right guy will be around you when you have your own life. When your main focus is not looking to get married or have a serious relationship. The right guy will be there when you are not calling 100 X's a day and or waiting by the phone for his call. When you have your own friends and social life apart from his that you can say you have plans when he calls and pick another day.

Answer 3

First be honest with yourself about what you're looking for in the right guy, once you no that then start enjoying yourself as being single doing the things you love to do and you will find each other.

Answer 4

You work on yourself first. Work on perfecting any goals or issues that you may have. And once (or while) you're working on being the best person you can be, then the right man will just come along. Guys always come around when you're not looking. People can always spot a secure and brilliant person a mile away, and it makes them curious. So, needless to say, don't waste your time, Mr. Right will come to you!

Answer 5

You dont.

Why not see what God says about you being married.
The last time I read the Word of God it clearly stated" A man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing."

Also try reading the Book of Soloman which is a marriage story and you will see that men are supposed to seek God's face and petition God for a wife, not women. Anytime you do things out of order with what God wants you will always be disappointed or run into a maniac or abuser or a big time loser.

Answer 6

By knowing what is that you WANT.

See, most women make the mistake of taking whatever crosses their path, sell their seves short and mistakenly believe that they will "change", "see the light" or "improve". WRONG. You will keen on dating the wrong man if you don't have any standards.

You have have a least a small checklist of the things that you want/need in a relationship with a man, then you will have t he power to properly choose between all prospective males and stop dating all the losers.

Good luck

Answer 7

I found my man at a fundraiser that i was running, he went to high school with me 20 years earlier and then he showed up at the fundraiser. I wasn't looking for anyone and then poof he showed up. It happens when you don't expect it to. Just don't act desperate and remind yourself you will find someone just when is all in time.

Answer 8

the guy has to find you, not you finding the guy, thats exactly what i asked for the last two weeks, i guess we have to hunt all over anywhere, we will never no where to meet and find them.

Answer 9

Let him find you.

Let the men do the chasing, when the right one comes along
then you can stop.

Playing Hard To Get helps.

Answer 10

As ' Corny ' as this may sound, True Love will find you, if you are really just being yourself, and not a 'facade' of something he will find out about eventually. Be real, Be Happy !! Good Luck.....

Answer 11

Hope he finds you but in the meanwhile invest in life...
you'll be enjoying yourself so much that you won't miss him while he's looking