2007-03-28 08:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Very carefully.
Check under every rock and behind every tree.
Um, I just happened to stumble upon mine.
2007-03-28 08:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to know what you're looking for, what are u interested in? Make sure u put out positive & unique vibes. And then u have to get out and mingle. Im not really big on trying to meet anyone of any substance at the club. I mean, it's too loud, people are drunk & just wanna party. So i do more gay bars where its a little more mellow, gay poetry events, gay pride events, or just go out in the city where there's a large gay population and flirt with someone who catches your eye. You can also try an online dating service. Alot of people knock it because its over the internet & u cant trust everyone, which is true. But there arfe a lot of honest & good people online who might just not be the mix & mingle type so you'll reach them quicker online. AND its a good way to get to know someone really well before u engage in any sexual relations. Just a lil advice. Hope this helps!
2007-03-28 15:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok hunny, this is coming from someone with expierence under his belt. im 23, i have never found the right one for me yet, but i can tell you what not to do. dont go to the bars, guys there are gonna be slutty and just wanna get off, once they do they are be gone for good. the internet usually dont work either, ya i have met someone online before, and i dated then in person for 6 months, but there has ben a couple times i meet someone from here and they ended up being really freaky. also its not all about looks, yes sex is a part of it but not the whole thing, now im not saying go for the ugly guy, as long as the person is cute enough to wear you can have sex with them, your good just dont lower your standards too much. and make sure you have a lot in comon just not to much kause if you break up he will try to take all your things from you. just live life and you might run into the guy in a mall or on the street. trust i would love nothing more then to find myself a good life partner, but the truth is its very hard to find one. i wish other guys werent so slutty. almost all my ex's have cheated on me. just be careful and wrap your tool. and your feelings will get hurt along the way, just dont let people get in your way of you beng happy.
2007-03-28 21:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kane O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen when you least expect it - I promise you! I was looking and looking, searching high and low then one day out of the blue I met my life partner. We've been together now for 5 years and we are best friends....
2007-03-28 15:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look for someone that you can connect with on a deep level. Don't go for just outward appearances. I'm not saying you have to date trolls. Just don't let looks be the primary factor. It may take awhile. Be patient.
2007-03-28 15:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
know what you want out of life...and don't look to hard for a partner.
2007-03-28 15:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off line and go out in the real world.
2007-03-28 15:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worried, u r still young n' beautiful. Sooner or later u'll get datin' or even married. Mayb there is some1 like u secretive which u don't know who is it?
2007-03-29 05:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still looking for mine. I think that maybe we should just stop looking and it will happen.
2007-03-28 17:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. It will happen when it is meant to be and you least expect it.
2007-03-28 15:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋