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I am suicidal and no ones seems to understand, i hate being an outcast where no one cares, i hate my self, i trust no one. i even have a past the no one else knows about. i hate every thing about life. i want out of hell...But like you people care.
but if you do care then answer, please i need help...i beg you please... if you need more info E-Mai me at Deathwing209@yahoo.com
thank you to those who listened to this...

2007-03-28 08:20:12 · 26 answers · asked by Marty C(stalker of fear) 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

26 answers

don't kill yourself. take a nap. go on vacation. watch little miss sunshine. move away from your family. go out and have tons of sex. be merry!!!

2007-04-04 17:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixchi 3 · 0 0

You youngsters are so young to throw out the word "suicide, suicidal, etc.". Death should be something achieved after a long full life, not a young life, that hasn't been fully experienced. Hate - the most powerful word in the English language, you hate your life, you have a life, you eat, sleep, probably have video games, cell phone, etc., you aren't in South Africa or any other country that has issues like none you could ever imagine. There are people who care, but don't take their caring for a weakness, because then you will truly be alone. Get up, shake it off, take a walk, look at the sky, breathe, look at the trees, the bees, the flies, all the animals, smell the roses and watch your step because in step there is the opportunity of stepping in some (s)ugar,
(h)oney, (i)ce, (t)ea, and even if you do, you can just wipe your shoe off and move on. Be patient, stay alive. God Bless.

2007-04-05 01:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0 0

We do care. What is making you feel this way? Why are you an "outcast"? Have you moved? Are you a genius? What is it? You have trusted us to try to help you. That is a start. As far as your past is concerned it has certainly played a big part as to where you are today but does not have to play that big a part of where you are tomorrow. The torment of ones own mind can be a major torment, but there are people that trust you too that need you. How? Well one day someone might be in your shoes and need your specialized help because you have been on the brink.
Now on to practical advice. There is a tea called St. John's Wort. It helps it really does. Is there nothing that you think that you are good at? Do you write? Do you paint? Do you cook? Can you learn to cook? Making bread is a great way to take out stress. You must put it in your mind to take it one day at a time. Find one thing each day that is good. A flower is growing. A tree is blooming. It is raining. that is good for the flowers and trees and helps to clean things etc... Please

2007-04-04 21:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0 0

There are places you can go or call staffed with people who really do care and have probably been right where you are now. If you are fat, ugly, not social, abused, or ANY other thing you think of as unpopular you are in luck. ALL of these things and more serious stuff is totally reversible. It may not be your fault whatever is bringing you so low as to feel hopeless, but you are in charge of your future. Don`t miss all the good stuff that is due you by ending your life. You can`t go back or undo all the hurt it causes the people that do love you and those who have not had the pleasure of meeting you yet. Call a suicide hotline and break your train of thought. Write back in 8 months and tell us how the climb out of the s--t hole you were in went. You are liked and loved by every single person that read your plea for help. So long for now Marty. from another climber

2007-04-04 12:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by kdh&J 2 · 0 0

We all have a past and the older we get the more of a past we accumulate. We all have done things we are not proud of and probably will continue to do things occasionally that we know are wrong.

The good news is that we learn from our experiences and you can learn from the one you are going through right now. This is an excellent opportunity for you to be humble and reach out to others, telling them of the hurt you have deep inside and being open to being helped and loved. If there is no one close to you that you trust then you must reach outside of your comfort level and find someone to reach out to.

Life isn't always fair and sometimes it seems like a situation will never end but it does. Emotions come and go and can be overwhelming at times but the good thing about them is that we don't have to take any action just because we are feeling something, like anger or sadness or jealousy, etc. . Feelings are natural but we have the control over our actions so please keep that in mind. You are a strong individual who will only grow stronger through each tough day and one day you will be able to share that with others - all of it - your past, your present, and help them so much. You just don't have any idea right now - but your life experiences will help others that you come in contact with later in your life, others who are hurting, who think things will never get better, who want to lash out or give up. I know, I've been there. The pain does eventually go away and the best part? I learned that I can survive painful experiences and that was a wonderful thing to discover about myself.

Reach out. There are those that can help you and care about you.

2007-03-28 08:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1 0

I am here to seriously help you .Are you serious to listen and take it?
I will try to answer the points raised by you as below,along with the words or statements made by you.

I am suicidal
(not necessarily,you can change it if only you are sincere and serious)

and no ones seems to understand,
(We are here to understand you,provided you are ready to talk uyour mind out)

i hate being an outcast where no one cares
(no one is an out caste and we are here to care about you even though we are at remote destinations)

, i hate my self
( You need not hate yourself and if there is reason for it,try to find it out and eliminate it)

, i trust no one( You must have some faithin some people,all are not bad ,though some may be bad)

. i even have a past the no one else knows about.
(you have to reveal your past to select one or two or at the best to a psychiatrist)
i hate every thing about life
( There is no reason to hate all about life)

. i want out of hell..

(life here is not hell for all.It depends upon how you make it for yourself)

.But like you people care.
but if you do care then answer
(we care so much and that is why we answer)

, please i need help...i beg you please... if you need more info E-Mai me at Deathwing209@yahoo.com
thank you to those who listened to this...

Wish you good luck and good time on planet earth before we land on another by the natural process of death.

2007-04-05 00:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by NQS 5 · 0 0

People do care about you. Why else would I, and probably a lot of other people who answer, care about you? I'm sure you have a family that care about you, and you don't even know it.

Listen, I know loads of people who have had so much crazy stuff happen in their lives, and it's difficult sometimes, but things always get worse before they get better.

If you hate so much about your life, prove yourself wrong. Do something about it. Go out more, and meet new people so you don't feel like an outcast. Go to a gym, join a class (maybe a hobbie you enjoy) or something. Don't waste your time thinking about suicidal thoughts, because one day, someone else may feel worthless and you could help them, since you've experienced it yourself.

Don't give up. People do care about you. Don't waste a life. People go through a lot worse (not that I know what you went through, but you're not alone) and I bet thousands of people would kill to be in your place right now.

good luck! Email me if you want more support.

2007-03-28 08:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes, you do need to call and get yourself some help. You may even need to check into the hospital. Suicide is not the solution, as things have a bad habit of improving just as you take those pills. Sounds like your "Past" is a burden for you, and you would like to tell people about it, so it is no longer a secret. Is that past also the reason you feel like an outcast? If you cannot tell your secret to someone, you cannot be friends with anyone lest your secret come out. If you find a counselor to talk to that will relieve the pressure and allow you room to find people who will like you and share your interests.

2007-03-28 08:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by mliz55 6 · 0 0

I have been there and done that. I wish I knew more details so that I could understand why you feel so bad. I can only suggest that you confide in someone close to you. Talking is wonderful therapy and you definitely need some friendly support right now. You need to understand that life is worth living and that there are people in this world that need you. If you have been feeling this way and just can't snap out of it, you may need help from a doctor, I did. Once I was medicated, I was feeling so much better, loving myself and the World again. Depression is a disease. Cheer up sweetie, you are loved!

2007-03-28 08:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0 0

Okay, people do care about you, look how many people have answered your question, so there are people out there who care. I would say you need to talk to a professional about this. I don't know what is going on in your life to make you feel so bad, but have you been checked out to see if you are bi-polar? Some people have a chemical problem in there body that makes them feel deep depression which is beyond their control. See a specialist and get tested to see if you have that problem. There are medications they can give you to help you to feel better. Please get some help, myself and others here are worried about you. Email me if you want to talk more, let me know if anything has improved or not. This may sound corny - but you are a child of God and he loves you know matter what. Try and have some faith, pray for help, I have done that many times in my life when I was feeling low and it helped me get past the pain. Get in touch with your spiritual side, you are here on Earth for a reason! You have to reprogram your thoughts to be positive instead of negative. Love yourself! I hope I have helped you in some way.

2007-04-04 19:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by jeannie 1 · 0 0

I'm very sorry that your life seems so bad to you. I wish that there was some magic wand to make things better (as do you probably) The best thing I could say is that there are people who care and people who have been there too. It may be worth your while to try to call a suicide hotline anonymously. It couldn't hurt and they will probably be able to help you better than we could here as they are specially trained and have more resources to give you. Please don't do anything you'll regret later, death is permanent and even though you feel that no one cares there have to be people who do and it will make them miserable to lose you. Please seek help!! Here are some possible numbers to try: 1-800-SUICIDE, 1-800-273-TALK, 1-800-799-4TTY (4889) Deaf Hotline. Good luck!

2007-03-28 09:00:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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