I went out with my ex for a year. We were crazy in love. I mean the craziest. Well there were times in the months were he did the most horrible things and i would always forgive him, from breaking up with me for someonelse and the next day seeing them together to, him forgetting my birthday. But also times of happienes and laughter.I broke up with him at 13 months cuz he was treating me like if i was worthless. So i told him not to call me anymore and not to ever come looking for me. For 3 months he was trying to call me. I finally answer on new years, we talked, it was nice. The next day he got a gf. A month after he introduced me to her.The next time i saw them together he made out with her right infront of my face. Its been 4 months they've been going out. but he still trys to talk to me, i always ignore him, hes asked me why i hate him. If i ignore him so much, then why is he always trying to talk to me? Should i just talk to him?Should i get him back for everything hes done?
2007-03-28 08:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What goes around comes around; and revenge, while it may make you feel better in the short term, solves nothing in the long term.
Despite his actions, you have to be the bigger person in all this. If he shows up with his new girlfriend, it's only for attention, a futile attempt to make you "see what you're missing", so to speak. He probably just can't believe that some one saw him for the type of person he is and broke up with him!
If I were you, I wouldn't pay any attention to him. You need to let him know that you will not be affected by his little games, and that you don't appreciate the way he acted and is acting; but whatever you do -- be responsbile for your actions, too!
2007-03-28 08:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. Im in the same situation, but u have to think about it. If u decide to keep talking to him, u have to deal with him and other girls...and him pretty much being a d*** on purpose. He does it to get a rise out of u. To make u feel worthless. He wants to see how much he can put u through until u call it quits all together. Then he'll pull that BS that all guys pull. If u get him back for everything....well thats putting him through BS, and not really making u any better than he is. But..my opinion...he's a d***. Get him back.
2007-03-28 08:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by SamE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would def. ignore him and never talk to him again! If you give in you are just giving him the attention that he wants from you. Just act as if he does not even exist. He obviously gets his kicks from upsetting you for whatever reason...just go on with your life and be the bigger person! Sounds like he needs to grow up!
2007-03-28 08:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ridiculous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO!!! why are you going to go out with a man who doesnt treat you the way you should be treated at all times!?!?!?!?!?!?! i think you should change your number, make it unlisted in the phone book, find a better man, and move on in life without him!!!
2007-03-28 08:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, forgetting your b/day is not a biggie..
Secondly, just ignore him and move on...
2007-03-28 08:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without reading the lengthy details....how about doing what is most productive and rewarding of your time?
2007-03-28 08:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋