Is there any hope?

Question

Is there any hope for 2 aries to make a compatible couple? He was born April 9th 1969 and i was born April 5th 1971. We have been having troubles lately and want to know if we are doomed to fail at this.....

Just wanted to let some of you know that I am not basing my life on this question.....Just wondering what the stars have to say if anything!!!!!

Answer 1

You cant judge anyone on just their sun sign, it all goes so much deeper than that

To get a true picture of your relationship you should get a compatibility chart done, with exact times, dates and places of birth

Beyond Star Signs is a world of Astrology where every aspect of a Horoscope (Birth Chart) has meaning.

IN GENERAL (without your birth details)

Aries and Aries

When two Aries come together, it's a very dynamic relationship. It can be spontaneous and challenging, and they're always competing. There are often fireworks in this relationship! An Aries-Aries partnership is like looking into a mirror. Aries can respect their partner's need for independence, because they are the same way. But at times they can be possessive and turn into two Rams butting their heads together. It's important for them to learn to work together instead of competing, because the combined energy of the partnership can achieve a great deal.

An Aries-Aries partnership is a meeting of two strong spirits, and the relationship is often positive and enthusiastic. They enjoy trying many new activities together, and they like being on the same team in group activities. They can be generous with each other, but because of strong egos on both sides it can be difficult for them to solve problems. It's important for them to learn to work together. They need to be careful not to be selfish -- both partners like things to go their way. But Aries also have a natural generosity, so two Aries can learn to compromise and take turns indulging each other. Because Aries are very open with their feelings, this partnership does not have problems with deceit or hypocrisy. But both partners must be careful to avoid the temper outbursts that may result from hasty judgments.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars. When two people with Mars energy come together, it's like two soldiers meeting on a battlefield: they can either fight together or against each other. Mars also represents passion, so two people born under Aries tend to have an active and exciting time together. They are both strong-willed and enjoy challenge, so it's normal for them to argue all the time -- making up is fun!

Aries is a Fire Sign. They have boundless energy, so it's rare for one partner to get tired while the other still wants to continue. Although they may disagree often, their differences of opinion don't last long -- they're too busy moving on to the next challenge to hold a grudge! There will, at times, be a battle for leadership so compromise will be necessary. If these two can keep their egos in check then it will be smooth sailing for this relationship.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign. In an Aries-Aries combination, both partners are skilled at initiating things, so they rarely waste time feeling each other out before they jump into a relationship or other undertaking with all of their considerable energy. When they know what they want, they go for it!

The best aspect of the Aries-Aries relationship is the dynamic and spontaneous nature of the partnership. Neither partner will ever be bored! Their mutual energy and ability to make up after disagreements makes theirs a passionate and compatible relationship.

Answer 2

Astrology shows bias against itself in the question of compatibility. Age differences, education, race, sexual orientation, nationality, religion, or economic stature are not factors. Family upbringing or social issues like single parenting or divorce don't matter. Date of birth does.

Also these people you put your question to are complete strangers. Are you willing to risk your relationship on their say-so? Kind of a big risk to do so. Whether they say yes or no; they take no resposibility for their actions.

But if you assume compatibility just because of birthdays, time and location of birth; that makes it a form bigotry as well. Since nobody has control when or where they are born; why would you or anybody want to be judged for that reason?
Take charge of your life.

Answer 3

Hey! If it was easy, everybody would be doing it. Aries have the natural ability to feel harder, hurt harder, fight harder, love harder, play harder, regret less, carry on with no revenge in sight, live harder, die later in life, and have more fun than any other sign. If you and your Aries object of affection are having some ups and downs, count yourself lucky and get on with it.

Answer 4

Your signs have nothing to do with whether or not your relationship is going to last, it has to do with you & your partners capability and working things out. Sometimes you just can't see eye to eye with a person.

Answer 5

This will be a battle of the wills.....but then again, it is about intention and both of you wanting this relationship to work.

Answer 6

"The fault lies not in the stars....The fault lies within ourselves." In other words, stop blaming the horoscope for your problems and start looking within yourself and within the content of the relationship.

Answer 7

have you ever seen one of those nature documentaries where the two rams come out and headbutt each other?

Answer 8

well, most of the matching starsigns are either loversor best friends, i rekon that you two are better as best m8s, hope i helped:)

Answer 9

You need a younger man, sweetie---How about a LEO?

Answer 10

if your basing your life on your horror scope no hope