what would you do if you're wife is being unfaithful to you?
2007-03-28 08:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a divorce, before I got a desease!!!
2007-03-28 08:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you have caught your wife yet, but I will say this, when you take wedding vows one of those vows is till death do us part. Just because she cheated doesnt make you better than she is because you havent cheated yet. In the bible Paul preaches that if a brother or sister falls to sin that we are to restore them gently and to forgive. The reason I am saying this is that this has happened to me as well and I learned the hard way about forgiving and taking vows that I made with God and to God with my spouse lightly. Get her to tell you everything and trust me this will take more than one conversation because she will not want to tell you everything all at once but you need to know the truth and you also need to get yourself and her tested for STD's and HIV. I know from experience that there will be a lot of hatred there but God is faithful and you will get past this. Dont just divorce her, because if it were you that got caught you would be wanting a second chance too. Stop making it seem like because she is the wife she has no right to cheat. Neither of the partners has the right to cheat, bad crap happens sometimes, people get selfish, stop thinking straight. Work it out because you will never trust the second wife if you leave. I will leave you with this thought and you can ask any other man and they will tell you the same thing I am about to say. " You run from a lion, you will run into a bear."
2007-03-30 19:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ebony H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone loves you, they would never cheat on you. how can you love someone that wants a little treat on the side? i don't think she truly loves you. you deserve someone better. it might hurt now... but take some time to be alone, away from her and clear your head and really think about the situation. maybe it's best to separate... and since she cheated... let her go. shut her out. then work on yourself by keeping yourself busy. go out with your friends/ family/ co-worker. talk to people about it, it releases tention and gives you different perspective. then move on and find yourself someone that truly loves you. good luck.
2007-03-28 08:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by blueflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate!
I've tried to fix her up with a number of good looking guys, but she still claims she's monogamous. I'm polyamorous and would love it if my wife were too.
2007-03-28 08:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no excuse for cheating.You may love her but what is the point to be with someone that doesn't love you anymore.Are you sure she is really cheating?If you are ,but still insist in stay with her you need a wake up call.
2007-03-28 08:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd scream. Jump up and down LOL
I caught my ex. I walked away. I always thought I would kill them both. I shocked myself!
BTY I AIN'T GOT A WIFE THOUGH. THANK GOD! LOL LOL LOL
2007-03-28 08:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good attorney, pack her stuff up and put in on the curb.
2007-03-28 08:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about watching? How about "You are a bad girl!" What are we supposed to say..this is up to you, no one else. Work it out, or get out. Good luck
2007-03-28 08:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you want to do? Just go with what your heart tells you to do
2007-03-28 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That marriage would be over for good.
2007-03-28 08:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋