I have a feeling mine is going 2 be. I won my house bec we were married only for 17 month and I bought the house with inheratence money and she got sole custody because my son is real young.
2007-03-28 07:59:11 · 11 answers · asked by dirbe22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your ex is vindictive then yes living hell, Hopefully in time it will fade but don't count on it. The best you can do is be there for your kids. It doesn't matter what the lawyers and judge see because your kids will see it and they will make their own judgments. Never bad mouth your ex in front of them and be the best loving parent you can be to your children.
To answer your question "living hell" my only child is now 13 so another 5 to go...
Good luck
2007-03-28 08:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boy friend and I have a very loving relationship we love to do all sorts of things together he has kids and I have kids my kids don't like his kids for the simple fact that his kids are rude and nasty to me if the kids want to spend time with their father it has to be only him they won't see him if he brings me along now their 16 and 20 so they are old enough to know better that to put limits on their parent so what ends up happening is the doesn't see his kids and it's not because I won't let him go to see his kids alone it's the fact that he trys to set for them an example of you can't tell you parent who to see or what to do ....I just don't understand some of these ex-wives they want to continue to make life a living hell for their ex-husbands....witch is something that I would never do I'm an ex wife my self and I never gave my e4x-husband any grief he was the one to do all the dirt slinging I wish I understood I guess the very best thing that people can eo now a days is make sure you know what you are getting into before you gt married in the first place devorce is hell long after the papers are signed and the property is split once you become someones exspouce be prepared to live a not so peaceful life....I wish you you the best ...and I hope that your situation is better that what I have experienced..good luck
2007-03-28 15:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt matter if the child is young. Sole custody,, you mean physical custody....right? So I thought I was gonna have a hard time with my ex forever but luckily my wish came true and he met someone after 3 years so now things are much better and we get along for the most part but hes busted a@& still isnt as involved with the kids as I wished he would be. Oh well, they know that I am their rock and they arent without anything. Good Luck and remember dont fall for her games. If she tries to use the kid against you take her butt back to court and get it in writing as far as visitation and stuff
2007-03-28 15:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be an example of courtesy. You cannot control her behavior but you can control yours. And as your child gets older and you have been the model of courtesy...meaning you never bad rapped Mom, the kid is going to realize you are a very good person, let alone a good parent. Her bad behavior will come back to haunt her if she says negative things about you to that child and you do not. The child will remember all.
2007-03-28 15:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man has two children with the ex, and she makes it a living hell. She wont even let us take our vacation with the kids which she agreed to. Plus she makes 1450 in child support per month and is always asking for more.
2007-03-28 15:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you pay child support she shouldn't be a bother for your new life in your new house, alone.
being a woman who had two children that are now 21 and 24 , the only problem i had was getting my ex to pay his child support. he still owes me about 7,000. but i just don't want to deal with the red tape and him even though it was ordered by the court. I really didn't care what he did with his time. he preached how good of a dad he was but didn't bother to get the kids on his weekend. believe me the kids DO remember that. I never talked bad about him in front of them. I didn't have to..
2007-03-28 15:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was absent. Once the divorce was over he was too busy to even see his kids. The kids suffered, but he left me alone.
2007-03-28 15:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was a living hell until they turned 18...now, its become true bliss!
2007-03-28 15:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's ex is making my life hell! So good luck to you and to your future girlfriends and wife
2007-03-28 15:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine tried to undermne my relationship w my son and today my son and i are closer then ever and he has real issues w his mom what goes around comes around
2007-03-28 15:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by ken j 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋