can you give me some insight on this dream?

Question

Ihave looked up some stuff on my own, but i want to know what you think...
I had a dream that Chad (my boyfriend) and I were at a hotel...(not in Kentucky oddly enough, but in our home town in Michigan). He was in the room sleeping, I was wandering about the halls. I would stop and chat with people on the way, The coversations I dont remember too well. I walked outside and it seems we were on a mountian(which is strange cause you would think that would mean we were in kentucky, but I really feel we we in MI) because there was a beautiful stair case from the doors leading straight down to the street. On the right side of me there was church benches and a few people sitting on them.

at the bottom of the stairs was the most BEAUTIFUL gathering of clouds. Like they had just fallen out of the sky, only inches above the street. there was a light periwinkle tone to the majority of the clouds and little bright white fluffy clouds above that. I could not believe how beautiful it was.

I wanted to walk down into them but i went to get my camera to take a picture. I turned around to go get it and it was already in my hand, so i turned around to take a picture and there were now many people looking at the clouds. Then the clouds started to deslove and blow away, before i could take the picture. I turned to the lady standing next to me and told her that was the most beautiful thing i had ever seen and was crying slightly, but i felt sooo happy, but a little disapointed because I wanted to walk into them. So I go back inside because I wanted to get back to chad and tell him about it. Plus it seemed like i had been away from him for weeks. As i walked through the door a girl next to me pulled a fire alarm and insisted she ment to do something else it was an accident. I headed back to the room as everyone else went out the doors. I could not use elevators so i had to take the stairs. I needed to be going up but i kept walking down. i stopped at a landing for lack of a bett

where there was a table that had some wallets and money just sitting there. I pick up 15 dollars and thought about stealing it. there was alot more money than that on the table. (you have to understand I have never and would never steal anything from anybody) So a man walks in and he was looking for his wallet.

He was kinda short, in his late 30`s, not very good looking, and he starts to talk to me. He gave me the creeps. but I could not find my way back to my room. and in the mean time people are evacuating the building and I wanted to get to Chad before he woke up and I wasn`t there. and i was afraid he would find me talking to this strange guy and be mad at me. Somehow I managed to start walking up stairs and then i had the choice to go left or right. I went left but it was the wrong way. I was looking for the door with the 40 on it. all the doors I saw were 30 -37 but when i tried to go back the other way, there was no other way. I never did make it back or find Chad before I woke up. When I did wake up I felt a huge sense of loss. I was just glad he was laying next to me and not gone to the bathroom or something cause i may have panicked.

Answer 1

To understand a dream, it’s helpful to keep in mind why and how we dream. When we sleep, the body and perception systems are shut down, but the brain stem continues to fire and the cortex remains active. The thoughts that have been most active during waking hours—perceptions, experiences, thoughts and feelings, processed consciously or unconsciously—are still “peaked” and they associate with other images already linked in your cortex. In other words, the brain references this content, but not in a rational way, not using input from the external real world as in waking hours. So the story connectedness isn’t like everyday experience, but rather a strange flow from one image to the next. Therefore, dreams aren’t magical messages to guide our life, but sequences of associated images taken from everyday experiences - thoughts and feelings that matter a lot to us during our waking life. So it’s a mistake to apply one-size-fits-all symbols, such as Freudian meanings or standard “dreammoods” formulas. All you need to do is think about what kind of imagery it is and how it relates to your daily life.

The images in this dream are about seeking highly desirable things, but then along the way, failing in the attempt. My guess is that you have good goals in your life, but they are challenging and it's hard to keep up with what you have to do and you fear you'll leave something undone, make a mistake or come up short. This kind of thing may have happened to you before in real life. So this anxiety was at work - consciously or unconsciously - when you went to sleep and it affected your dream imagery.

Answer 2

This dream is an indication of the dreamer's ability to overcome a huge obstacle-something which has been quite difficult for a long time. This dream is an indication of success regarding this obstacle. I will be glad to read this for you. My group's address is listed below. In the meantime try not to let the dream worry you so much; it is a good omen. :)
Sweet dreams!

Answer 3

How long have you and Chad been together? Are you maybe feeling that it's time to "make it official" and get married? Has he ever said that he would be against this?

Answer 4

hm..the goal is to be with your boyfriend in a hotel. But on the road you find yourself here, there, and so on.Finally you reach the goal but you doing it all to complicated.
The message is: do it more easy for yourself.

Answer 5

Hotel
To see a hotel in your dream, signifies a new state of mind or a shift in personal identity. You need to move away from your old habits and old way of thinking. Or you feel the need to temporarily escape from your daily life.

Boyfriend
To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him.

Wander
To dream that you are wandering, suggests that you are searching and looking for some direction in your life. You are lacking motivation. Alternatively, it represents a transformation.

Hallways
To see a hallway in your dream, symbolizes the beginning of a? path that you are taking in life or a journey into the unknown and self exploration. It represents spiritual, emotional, physical, or mental passages in your life.? It is indicative of a transitional phase in your life.

Mountains
To see mountains in your dream, signifies many major obstacles and challenges that you have to overcome. If you are on top of the mountain, then it signifies that you have achieved and realized your goals. Alternatively, mountains denotes a higher realm of consciousness, knowledge, and spiritual truth.

Door
To dream that you are entering through a door, signifies new opportunities that will be presented before you. You are entering into a new stage in your life and moving from one level of consciousness to another. In particular, a door that opens to the outside, signifies your need to be more accessible to others, whereas a door that opens into the inside, denotes your desire for inner exploration and self-discovery.
To see opened doors in your dream, symbolizes your receptiveness and willingness to accept new ideas/concepts. In particular, to see a light behind it suggests that you are moving toward greater enlightenment/spirituality.
To dream that the doors are locked, signifies opportunities that are denied and not available to you or that you have missed out on. In particular, if you are outside the locked door, then it suggests that you are having some anti-social tendencies. If you are inside the locked door, then it represents harsh lessons that need to be learned.
To dream that you are locking doors, suggests that you are closing yourself off from others. You are hesitant in letting others in and revealing your feelings. It is indicative of some fear and low self-worth.


Revolving Door
To see revolving doors in your dream, suggests that you are literally moving in circles and going no where. You may feel that your opportunities and choices lead to a dead end.

Stairs
To dream that you are walking up a flight of stairs, indicates that you are achieving a higher level of understanding. You are making progress into your spiritual/emotional/material journey.
To dream that you are walking down a flight of stairs, signifies that you will face many setback in your endeavors.
To see spiral or winding stairs, signify growth and/or rebirth.
View Dream Bank: "Up The Staircase"


Staircase
To see a staircase in your dream, symbolizes change and transformation.

Bench
To see or sit on a bench, signifies your tendency to procrastinate and put things aside. It also suggests that you often take on a passive role instead taking initiative.

Clouds
To see fluffy white clouds in your dream, signify inner peace and spiritual harmony. An issue in your waking life may be clearing up.

Camera
To see a camera in your dream, signifies your desires to cling on and/or live in the past. Alternatively, it may represent you need to focus on a particular situation. Perhaps you need to get a clearer picture or idea.

Crying
To dream that you are crying, signifies a release of negative emotions that is more likely caused by some waking situation rather than the events of the dream itself. Your dream is a way to regain some emotional balance and a way to safely let out your fears and frustrations. In our daily lives, we tend to ignore, deny, or repress our feelings. But in our dream state, our defense mechanisms are no longer on guard and thus allow for the release of such emotions.?
To see someone else crying in your dream, may be a projection of your own feelings onto someone else. If you do not cry in your waking life, then seeing someone else cry may be a little easier to deal with then seeing yourself cry.
To wake up crying, represents some suppressed hurt or previous trauma that is coming up to the surface. You can no longer suppress these emotions. They need to be dealt with head on.
To dream that no one hears or responds to your cries, represents your helplessness and difficulties and frustrations in trying to communicate with others. You feel that your words are falling on deaf ears. Perhaps your dream is telling you to be more vocal and work harder to get your point across.

Alarm
To hear or pull an alarm in your dream, suggests that you are experiencing a conflict in a relationship or situation. You may be questioning the decisions you have made.

Wallet
To see a wallet in your dream, symbolizes financial resources or self-identification.
To dream that your wallet has been stolen, indicates that someone may be trying to take advantage of you.
To dream that you lost your wallet, suggests that you need to be more cautious and careful about your spending and finances. You need to be more responsible with your money. Alternatively, it indicates that you are losing touch with your true identity.

Fifteen
Fifteen represents a dissolution of difficult conditions.

Alone
To dream that you are alone, indicates feelings of rejection. You may be feeling that no one understand you.

Lost
To dream that you are lost, suggests that you have lost your direction in life or that you have lost sight of your goals. You may be feeling worried and insecure about the path you are taking in life. Alternatively, you may be trying to adjust and get accustomed to a new situation in which the rules and conditions are ever changing.
To dream that someone else is lost, represents unresolved issues or feelings regarding the person that is lost. Consider also what aspect of that person you may have lost within your own self. Perhaps you need to recapture and re-acknowledge those aspects.

Fork In The Road
To see a fork in the road in your dream, represents an important decision that you need to make. It may indicate your choices or ambivalence about some situation. Alternatively, a fork symbolizes the union of opposites. Opposing views/aspects are coming together.

Left
To dream of the direction left, symbolizes the unconscious and your repressed thoughts/emotions. It is an indication of passivity.
To dream that you are left behind, represents feelings of rejection or not fitting into a group. It may also highlight fears of not being able to keep up. You are questioning your abilities and/or may not be utilizing your full potential. If you left something or someone behind, indicates that you are ready to let go of the past and move forward.

Forty
Forty denotes that time is on your side. It is a period of cleansing, preparation and growth.